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can anyone give me advice on what i should do?
this girl and i...
Replies: 4 — Last Post Nov. 7 2:02pm by jk2
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so this girl and i have recently started talking (we are both girls and are both gay) anyways...we both kind of have baggage with our exes and stuff but both agreed that we want to get to know each other and take things slow...so last night we were talking and she told me she thinks im shallow...and when we got drunk and hooked up the first night we met it should have never have happened..i told her i agreed...but she was like obviously we are both attracted to one another but i want to make sure its for the right reasons...and i want to take things incredibly slow with you...especially since you just got out of a relationship...i mean im attracted to you theres no doubt but i want to make sure that what we have is real.......and then i was just kind of like yea i do regret hooking up with you the first night...i dont want to make you feel like thats all i want from you because its not like that...and she was like "well i mean it was totally a mutual thing so...you dont have to regret it....we were like all over each other haha".....so do you think she likes me....how should i take it slow?
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*lesbian

Gay is more for men. Don't confuse.

Just go slow. Don't do anything rash. Keep talking with her all the time.

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I think she likes you. As for taking it slow, it should be pretty self-explanatory. Don't pressure her into doing stuff together all the time, leave some space. Don't worry, if it works out, then that space will gradually shrink. Don't pressure her into getting physical- wait a while. If you're making out with her, and it's getting heated, ask her how far she wants to go. Make sure she wants what she's getting, otherwise it might feel like you're just there for the sex. But really, don't over-think it. A relationship is supposed to be fun to be in, and if you're over-thinking everything then that takes all the enjoyment out of it. Respect her boundaries, but don't be scared to test them a bit. If she says she isn't ready, accept it and wait. Good luck. I hope you and her are happy together

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don't rush anything, make sure your both comfortable with anything you do and i spose just relax about it and let things slip into place

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Quote: from Manipulative Acid at 1:48 pm on Nov. 7, 2009
*lesbian

Gay is more for men. Don't confuse.

Just go slow. Don't do anything rash. Keep talking with her all the time.

I'm gay, and I HATE the term lesbian. I would rather be called a fag than lesbian.

Anywho, to the point, she does like you. She just doesn't want the relationship to be lust rather than love. I went through the same thing. Slow is better than nothing at all :)

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