this girl and i have been talking and hanging out for only a couple days now..but the first night we hung out we ended up getting drunk and hooking up...now she tells me it was the alcohol and it was a bad idea to get wasted together the first night we hung out...but then she was like obviously we are attracted to each other but i want to take things incredibly slow..especially since you just got out of a relationship you should want to take things even slower than i do...and im really not completely over my ex....shes like i want to get to know you and make sure what we have is real....she was like i really like you...like im into you..but i just want to make sure we dont end up doing things for the wrong reasons...and i was like yea i really regret us getting so wasted on the first night we hung out and hooking up...and she was like well you dont have to regret it..obviously it was a mutual thing and we are both attracted to one another.... the only thing that throws me off is that shes so incredibly hesitant with me....i didnt even hug her goodbye....what could be going on with her? do you think she wants to eventually have a meaningful relationship with me and wants to make sure we dont ruin it by rushing into things...or is she just making shit up....?
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betz
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ummm you posted this earlier
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switchfoott052
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she wants a real relationship. not some guy thats going to use her for sex. she obviously feels guilty about getting drunk and having sex with someone she wasn't dating. she wants to have a serious relationship and take things slow. she doesn't want to be played and used.
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Don't post twice. >_>
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People say that you posted this before.. Because of this me have no reply.^.^
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