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Would you stay with a guy who beat you?
Replies: 29 — Last Post Nov. 7 5:46am by forever 21
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whoisabs


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What'd you do to warrant a hit?

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oh I'd take a beating from a hot guy ANY day. Now, if he was ugly, I'd demand the severest charged were brought down on him.
I mean, that dreamy smile and soulless sex just makes up for the bruises, cracked ribs and self worthlessness which follows.

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Quote: from whoisabs at 6:19 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
What'd you do to warrant a hit?

I didn't get beaten lol
I think if I was dating someone I probably would, because I can be really annoying and really deserve to be hit.

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Quote: from MisBHaved at 7:16 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Even if he was really sweet, and really sexy, but he hit you, but.. he apologized would you stay?

I'm not in an abusive relationship I just wondered, because idk if I could honestly say I would leave, I mean how do you leave someone if you really love them? You can't. And maybe they just have an anger problem


Unless it was an honest accident... once or twice is the most I would tolerate.

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Quote: from MisBHaved at 7:22 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Quote: from whoisabs at 6:19 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
What'd you do to warrant a hit?

I didn't get beaten lol
I think if I was dating someone I probably would, because I can be really annoying and really deserve to be hit.

Playful hits isn't the same thing as an actual physical blow...

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Quote: from Stormblazer at 6:27 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Quote: from MisBHaved at 7:22 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Quote: from whoisabs at 6:19 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
What'd you do to warrant a hit?
 

 I didn't get beaten lol  
 I think if I was dating someone I probably would, because I can be really annoying and really deserve to be hit.

Playful hits isn't the same thing as an actual physical blow...

I know.

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I would argue that you're fooling yourself if you think you love that person.  There's no love in a relationship where you can't love yourself and respect the fact that you shouldn't be beaten, and that apologies mean nothing.

Anger problems do exist, but there are also things like anger management and things that he can do in EFFORT to change.  But even if it is anger, I'm not going to stay with him and let him beat me because that's ~his~ problem.

Would you stay with a drug addict that was spending all of his money on drugs and couldn't support himself just because he was addicted?  Would you want that to be the person you raise a family with?

Would you stay with someone who cheated on other girls because he just couldn't help it because he was always really turned on and you weren't there all the time?

Would you stay with someone that murdered someone and said that they did it because they had anger problems?  Or with someone that beat all your children because he had anger problems?

I wouldn't... that's just me though.

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Arquette


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No way! Men and violence is not a good thing for any woman.

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Stormblazer


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Quote: from Arquette at 7:31 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
No way! Men and violence is not a good thing for any woman.

Nice assumption. Violence of that nature is bad for BOTH genders.

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Love them or not, nobody deserves to be beaten.
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whoisabs


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Quote: from Arquette at 6:31 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
No way! Men and violence is not a good thing for any woman.

Anything to excuse women and violence?

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T4nkG1rl


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Is that even a serious question?
Of course not.
He's not a "very sweet guy" if he beats you, is he?
Dumbass.

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anongirl


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how do you leave someone if you really love them??????????? because you should love yourself more, and realize you deserve better.
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Arquette


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Quote: from Stormblazer at 6:42 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
Quote: from Arquette at 7:31 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
No way! Men and violence is not a good thing for any woman.
 
Nice assumption. Violence of that nature is bad for BOTH genders.

Yes. I am well aware thank you very much. =/ It wasn't as if I was born fucking yesterday you stupid arss.  


Quote: from whoisabs at 6:43 pm on Nov. 6, 2009

Quote: from Arquette at 6:31 pm on Nov. 6, 2009
No way! Men and violence is not a good thing for any woman.
 

Anything to excuse women and violence?


And, you. I know all about violence, gender violence. For many years I've been working voluntarily among victims of violence; victims forced out of their homes to live on the streets in Brighton.  

I work at a night shelter in my town. It's under a registered trust. And I have seen actually more percentage of women who have been cruelly treated than men.  

Post edited at 2:04 am on Nov. 7, 2009 by Arquette

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forever 21


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Honestly, I have been through abuse before in my relationship...mentally however where the guy cheated on me.

He cheated on me once, but I really did love him so much I took him back....but the second time? I left his ass in a heartbeat.

Basically what I'm saying is, I went through some sort of abuse before and I took him back even after he abused me.....but honestly, after going through it...I learned people 99% don't change. So no, I probley wouldn't take a abuser back.

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