Well theres this guy that likes me and I am starting to like him back but he's just not physically attractive and I would almost be embarassed to introduce him to my friends or go out in public.... I know this is being shallow but I dont even know why I am beginning to have feelings for him because he is totally not my type :x.
Forget and move on? Or just try it out even though I think he's well...... ugly.
6:01 pm on Nov. 7, 2009
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kelley187
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i used to kinda feel that way about my current bf but now i've gotten used to him and think he's pretty good looking. you'll quit caring what other people think the more you hang out with him. and that's a good quality to aquire.
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Areola
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If you can't accept him physically then don't bother. There needs to be at least some physical attraction as well as emotional.
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uPiNsMoKe420
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If you are too insecure to show him to your friends then don't even bother being in a relationship. Physical attraction is only a small portion of real attraction, and if you are falling for him then other attractions outweigh the physical...
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yes, that is shallow. not to be blunt, or judgmental, but it is understandable when you don't want to go out with someone because you don't like them, and they are not that attractive, but when you use attractiveness as an excuse not to go out with a guy you actually like! well that is just pathetic. I would move on, he probably deserves better.
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