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"If we had a long distance relationship, I would break up with you."
Replies: 12Last Post Nov. 7 9:11pm by Anonymous
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Yes. That's what he fucking said to me tonight.

I asked him why, and he said, "Because it would hurt you if I didn't." WHAT THE FUUUUCK.

I told him if he did break up with me, I would be devastated. And hurt. And if I were to stay with him, we would still see each other. But he still says he would refuse to stay with me if it became a long distance relationship.

He keeps letting his insecurities and past get in the way of our relationship. It's starting to take a toll on me.

No, I'm not a girl who cheats on her boyfriends. No, I'm not the chick who breaks promises. I'm not the chick who would hurt you.

"Sorry, babe. It would be better for us if we didn't see each other while in a long distance relationship. I know I'm being an insensitive dick, but I don't care if that upsets you."

Why the fuck is he being such a dick to me? Does he honestly think that by saying this to me, it shows that I should trust him and be with him despite the fact that I know he will break up with me? Does he honestly think that I won't try to find somebody else? Why the fuck should I be in a relationship when he's basically telling me it's bound for failure because he's going to x college no matter what next year.


8:49 pm on Nov. 7, 2009
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then hes not worth it girl

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if u hate him u won't love him

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He's just saying it couldn't work.  I wouldn't have a long-distance relationship either.

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I honestly don't blame him. A long distance relationship is a difficult thing to keep alive.

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guhh guys can be such dicks. hes not worth it if he's saying that

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i dnt see the point in long distance relationships. nd even though you say you would see each other you probley wouldnt.  ive been in the same situation

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i realize that it's a hard thing to keep alive. But i told him that seeing each other wouldn't be a big deal for us. I would see him every week.

by long distance, he means more than 30 minutes away.

I told him long distance wouldn't work for me either, but that's only if i never got to saw him. if i saw him once a week, i would be happy. i guess he wouldn't.


8:52 pm on Nov. 7, 2009
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Yeah, he's really not worth it, I would distance yourself.

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Quote: from ChemicEmotions at 8:52 pm on Nov. 7, 2009

i realize that it's a hard thing to keep alive. But i told him that seeing each other wouldn't be a big deal for us. I would see him every week.

by long distance, he means more than 30 minutes away.  

I told him long distance wouldn't work for me either, but that's only if i never got to saw him. if i saw him once a week, i would be happy. i guess he wouldn't.


im in a long distance relationship. it can be very hard. like if they were to do something you would never know. but if you get to see him once a week it should be ok.. oh well as i said..guys can be suck dicks

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Quote: from Jemii xo at 10:55 pm on Nov. 7, 2009

Quote: from ChemicEmotions at 8:52 pm on Nov. 7, 2009

i realize that it's a hard thing to keep alive. But i told him that seeing each other wouldn't be a big deal for us. I would see him every week.  

 by long distance, he means more than 30 minutes away.

 I told him long distance wouldn't work for me either, but that's only if i never got to saw him. if i saw him once a week, i would be happy. i guess he wouldn't.


im in a long distance relationship. it can be very hard. like if they were to do something you would never know. but if you get to see him once a week it should be ok.. oh well as i said..guys can be suck dicks


oh i know, i've been in a long distance relationship too. it didn't work out because we never saw each other. the thing is, this guy isn't even wanting to try it for a while.

he just thinks the worst.


9:07 pm on Nov. 7, 2009
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Leave him before he leaves you...

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Quote: from MauerMan at 11:11 pm on Nov. 7, 2009

Leave him before he leaves you...
I can't do that.

9:11 pm on Nov. 7, 2009
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