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 Replies: 9 — Last Post Nov. 4 7:19pm by Anonymous
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( Anonymous )
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ok, me and my girlfriend have tried to have sex before, but when we are about to go all the way i guess i get stage fright and I go flacid. This has happened more than once and its so embarrassing. Through the foreplay, and everything else I'm as hard as a rock, but when its time to slip the condom on I just lose it. What can i do about this? my gf was so upset because she thinks she turns me off. I think its jsut because I'm shy. I'm not small(7 inches is fine by me) and I'm a good looking guy so IDK what's wrong. can someone please help me?
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kink122206
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If you aren't comfortable with the person, you won't be comfortable fucking em...
Maybe it's your girl.
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mess around, have funn, don't hold back--Be who you wana be.
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ninxy1029
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lol because of the condom, try doing it without a condom to see what happens, but, if ur really shy, that might be the problem dude, listen GO FOR IT, Dont be shy shes seen ur dick, so just do it man trust me u can do it man dont be scared, its okay to be shy but dont make it to where she thinks that, lol just be more aware of it but personallty shit if i had my girl about to fuck me i say fuck the condom ride on me pretty please lol
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Stormblazer
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Have you tried doing it in dark lighting / no lights?
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artsyalex
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I have a huge problem with this, I just try to imagine my dirtiest fantasies and I pleasure myself without thinking about her but her pleasure comes with it!
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( Anonymous )
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no its usually kind of light in her room. Do you think if we can't see eachother I'll be more comfortable?
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Stormblazer
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Quote: from Anonymous at 7:59 pm on Nov. 4, 2009
 no its usually kind of light in her room. Do you think if we can't see eachother I'll be more comfortable?
Probably. You'll be able to focus on your other senses better too, like touch/smell/taste (which are more important sexually anyways don't you think =P)
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( Anonymous )
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yeah thats true. I mean, i love seeing her body, but i can't thoroughly enjoy it because im bummed that i can't get my dick up lol
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