someone on LW said to me once that if I was really an inrovert I wouldn't look for socialization at all but that's not true
introverts to like to socialize, just in a different way
we hate small talk and prefer deep conversations on subjects that actually interest us, and think small talk is a waste unless it's with someone we've just met
we're stimulated by logical debate, digging deep to see how people think, finding root causes of stuff, etc and also introspection
irl this is incredibly difficult to engage in compared to online
I've only had one irl conversation like that here, and it was with a stranger who I think was also quite introverted.
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click and please click
^use head phones