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I have a boyfriend but I still seek attention from other boys, I don't know why. Maybe it's because my boyfriend doesn't make me feel wanted and I like that feeling? I don't know. But I have two other guys who I talk to that I've been leading on for the past couple months. And I've lead them on to the point where they think that they're in love with me. Both of them have claimed that they think that I'm "the one" and they're sure of it...and I can't help but feel flattered and keep leading them on. I've even told both of them that they could come and visit me and I'd leave my boyfriend to be with them. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me.
I promised myself I wouldn't be like my mother, and already I've developed her one of horrible things about her. I don't want to leave my boyfriend.
I want to stay with him because I truly do love him. I know it may not seem like it from my actions...but I know what I feel about him is genuine and I want to be with him. How do I fix the mess I've created..?
Please help Livewire.. *If you don't have anything helpful to say, please keep it to yourself. I know that what I've done is wrong and everything. I know. I don't need you to bitch at me for it. I just need advice... 
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Forgot My Name
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Wholy fuck, why would you do that? God is never going to forgive that sin.
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"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities
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sk8er
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You sound alot like my ex. Truth be told, you don't know what it is that you want or who you love. If you truly were in love with someone, you would be focused on them and them alone.
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8:50 pm on Nov. 4, 2009 | Joined: Mar. 2005 | Days Active: 545
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penumbra
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While the desire to criticize is really tempting, im gonna respect your wishes and avoid it. Listen very carefully. What you NEED to do if you want any chance of of having a legitimate, sincere relationship thats not based on lies is tell your boyfriend everything you told us. No way around it Hopefully he wont leave you, but i cant say you dont deserve it if he does. Good luck Post edited at 8:52 pm on Nov. 4, 2009 by penumbra
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Elephantis
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Tell your boyfriend and end all this if you want to clear your conscience. Something like that happened to me and the only thing that helped was my boyfriend knowing what happened because he didnt deserve to be cheated like that.
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Littlestoxie
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Maybe it is because you like attention and crave it all the time. I recommend choosing right away which guy you TRULY love. Leading guys on further will only hurt someone in the end...and you could ultimately be that person who gets hurt. Maybe you do need a guy who will fulfill that need for attention all the time. Let the other guys down slowly and really please try not to hurt them that much. You'll feel bad and really you should but in the end it will be good for everyone. Oh, and stop leading guys on...be trustworthy.
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"Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being
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Aero Deeznuts
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you dont love him, otherwise you wouldnt be doing or saying such stupid shit. bitch.
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Aimforthehead
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Do what stormblazer said and be open about it. If you start talking to people make it known you have no interested in having exclusive feelings for them.
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Stormblazer
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Quote: from Aero Deeznuts at 8:22 am on Nov. 5, 2009
 you dont love him, otherwise you wouldnt be doing or saying such stupid shit. bitch.
Maybe, maybe not. I know first hand that people are capable of having real feelings for multiple people, and I can name countless sources and accounts of other people who have felt the same.
I should probably include this in my signature, but read Steve Pavlina's piece on the subject here, and scroll down to the section on "Marriage".
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jmsoccerknight9
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I haven't read your post yet, but he would forgive you everything automatically, and he's waiting for the very moment you turn to him and realize it.
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