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Replies: 5Last Post Nov. 4 8:32pm by TheAntiBarbie
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i have always liked guys, but 18 months ago i fell for a chick and i am still with her and have never been happier. both of our parents are completely homophobic, it sucks i could never come out. her mom found out and took away her phone and computer and sent her to a shrink and fuckin anger management? shes completely nuts, her mom also called me and threatened me to stop seeing her, her life is hell from her mom finding out, i cant imagine how my family would react. i cant come out i dont want to lose my family even if they are mean and homophobic. For example, my dad saw a gay couple at the food store last weekend and wouldnt stop bitching about how horrible it is that gay couples can shop in public and shit, wtf are they sposed to do? its not like they were even kissing or suttin! idk but thats just one of many times i have chosen to keep my love live private, her moms bad enough never mind mine on top of it? has anyone else ever dealt with this kinda shit? it sucks...

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Wow that is terrible. I think my parents are generally open minded, but I haven't told them anything about my girlfriends...it's just so much easier to keep it a secret until the world is ready to accept us. =[  It's not like they can hate you forever.  Maybe the sooner the better though in this situation, before they find out second hand... :\

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Your going to need to come out sooner or later. And most likely the sooner the better. It's only going to get worse if you drag it out. At least I think so.

Either way, you shouldn't be ashamed. Homophobic people can be pretty disgusting.

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I was raised to not be homophobic. But i don't see why people throw such a huge fit over homosexual people shopping? and eating at a resteraunt. Well, what you need to do is if you do come out to your parents. Ask them if they have ever watched porn and if they liked it. and i mean like regular porn not gay porn. If your dad says yes then say, "Well, do you thinkit would be the same if the guy wasn't hard" and he would be like "yeah. i like to watch them get hard"
i mean if they want to act like that then they can go suck it. I mean i thought this country was supposed to be free. now gays can't get married or adopt kids who really need homes.

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Sooner is not better, unless you're already out on your own, which I'm assuming you are not. They're obviously not ready to handle it and it will do nothing but your life more difficult right now. Even if you are, I wouldn't do it until her parents calm down because that will just add more to what you're dealing with.

Don't get me wrong, I'm all for people coming out of the closet, but in a situation like yours, I think it's definitely best to wait.


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