We've known eachother for a few months now but only been going out for a bit. I tell him everything because I'm a sucker for a guy who asks whats wrong. The problem is that he's always happy...and he never tells me whats wrong with him. I'm already getting second thoughts about him because he just keeps all his feelings in. Its killing me. I don't know what to do. Oh and I ask him whats wrong all the time.
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wellidk what to say just make him tell you how he feels and explain how a relationship is based honesty...
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Lol, maybe nothings wrong? Lmao.
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Give him alittle more time to loosen up. If you try to force him to tell you whats wrong then he may not want to tell you anything. Been there and donme that.
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Most guys are like that..
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switchfoott052
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i think a lot of guys are like that. i wouldn't worry about it. maybe nothing is wrong
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what you need to do is be concerned. more than you already are. he needs to know your not blind to his problems. next time you ask whats wrong, ugh i know this sounds corny but whatever, look in his eyes. and when he says "nothing" (if he does) just keep staring at his eyes. after a few seconds say "well you can talk to me whenever you need to."
that way he know you know something is wrong. and MAYBE eventually he'll tell you. some guys do some guys don't.
thats what i did and it worked for me.
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thats how i am and its just that thing where u try to tough everything out
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BuckShot
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Umm, did it ever cross your mind that maybe nothing is wrong with him. How bad is your life to where you think people can't just be happy? Or maybe he just doesn't feel that close to you...
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really i dun get it who is it?
The problem is that he's always happy
That is a serious problem that needs to be corrected...
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Umm, did it ever cross your mind that maybe nothing is wrong with him. How bad is your life to where you think people can't just be happy? Or maybe he just doesn't feel that close to you...
the latter makes more sense to me. He's a guy who does like talking about feelings...just mine though. I do believe people can just be happy...but under any circumstance he's still extremely happy. I can tell when somethings wrong.
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