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SO tomorrow im having gay sex but im sort of afraid. It will be my first time having any sort of sexual intercourse and even though I know most people are excited, I'm more scared. (I'm being the top), but i just feel like I don't know what to do or something....And do condoms make it easier or more difficult? I feel like it might make it easer because then I don't have to worry too much about how unhygienic it all is It just seems gross. But a condom might just complicate things...whatever. help?

8:03 pm on Nov. 5, 2009
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condoms definitely make it easier .... if its your first time just stick to doing oral, and save anal for a special occasion

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Use a condom and lots of lube. I also think you should maybe not do this, you don't sound ready yet. Screw around a bit and take things slowly.

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Use a condom. No matter what.

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Use condoms, Use lube


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Ask your partner about this. It should probably be something you discuss.

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they make  man to man condoms just for this purpose

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Just be sure to go slow and use a lot of lubrication. It's scary for everyone their first time, but the slower you take things, the more comfortable you'll feel. If you find yourself not really ready to do it, tell your partner and wait until you are.

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Quote: from rileyy at 11:04 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

condoms definitely make it easier .... if its your first time just stick to doing oral, and save anal for a special occasion
oh, ive already done/had oral alot

8:08 pm on Nov. 5, 2009
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Quote: from iMegaphone at 11:04 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

Use a condom and lots of lube. I also think you should maybe not do this, you don't sound ready yet. Screw around a bit and take things slowly.

 


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A condom is definetly safer. But considering you can't get pregnant from anal, if you know your partner and you know he has nothing then you don't really need one, other then as you said the hygene side of things.
If you use a condom, the lube will dry up quicker which means more stopping and sarting to re apply. You will need lube either way. Just take it nice and easy because it is painfull.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:08 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

Quote: from rileyy at 11:04 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

condoms definitely make it easier .... if its your first time just stick to doing oral, and save anal for a special occasion
oh, ive already done/had oral alot

feel better about it?  know what u r gonna do?  pm me if you want

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