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Why is he acting this way?
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My ex broke up with me because he wasn't happy anymore.  
I let him let go of me because I wanted him to be happy.  

We cut off all communications after that.

Then a week later, he contacts me on our 11th month anniversary.  
Ever since then, he kept contacting me through the internet, phone, and mail.  
All of our conversations would be friendly. Both of us didn't mention our relationship but every once in a while..he would refer to something we did in the past.  

Then after a month of daily communication, he all of a sudden tells me that he thinks it would be better if start talking less.  
(keep in mind we don't see each other anymore because we go to different colleges)

What are some possible reasons for his sudden mood swings?  
Why is he acting this way?  

Post edited at 4:46 pm on Nov. 5, 2009 by forgottenmelody


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i think it is best to let him go, dont talk to him. nobody knows but the way he is acting is called fucking you around and that is not good.

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He might either have nostalgia, or reverse nostalgia, like myself.

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Quote: from Total Destruction at 4:48 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

He might either have nostalgia, or reverse nostalgia, like myself.

what do you mean?

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he doesnt know what he wants. he probably missed you, then the more he spoke to you he thought he wanted to get back into things, then he told himself no, and wanted to speak less so it'd be easier for him to not think about it. i wouldnt worry about his mood swings tho, just carry on being friendly but get on with your life, if he misses you and wants you back it will come up at some point.

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Quote: from avrilfan at 8:52 pm on Nov. 5, 2009

he doesnt know what he wants. he probably missed you, then the more he spoke to you he thought he wanted to get back into things, then he told himself no, and wanted to speak less so it'd be easier for him to not think about it. i wouldnt worry about his mood swings tho, just carry on being friendly but get on with your life, if he misses you and wants you back it will come up at some point.

thank you so much for the response :)
it was really helpful.


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