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Cutting your V-Card?
Replies: 13Last Post Nov. 20, 2009 9:25pm by CHEWWY
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i love my boyfriend very much, and i know he loves me very much. We've been together for almost 8 months and we're both virgins. I've been thinking about sex a lot lately and i know i want my first time to be with him, but i dont know if i should. The things that are stopping me is because either like its how i was brought up, how you have to wait until marriage, i dont believe that but i geuss it still got to me a little. i know i wont wait till marriage but i dont know if i should wait longer. we'll be 16 in a couple of months. whats your advice LW?

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Use a safety scissors.

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wait.

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dont do it.

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fuck his brains out. use a rubber.

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You're both too young.

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Quote: from feeltheshane at 8:14 pm on Nov. 20, 2009

Use a safety scissors.

lol is this rhetorical?

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You should definitely wait.

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do it, it'll be worth, use pill, not rubber unless 1 of u has std

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um, cutting?

but i guess if you want to, just be safe

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I'd wait. You're both kind of young, and if you are asking, you really should wait.

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radshelb


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If you don't feel 100% ready, don't do it.

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i wanna be with you all the time.

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As others have said, you're still young.  I'm not saying that doesn't mean you don't care about each other, but more that there's no need for a rush.  Especially if part of you still feels taht you should wait, then you should wait until you're more confident in how you feel.  If you are both going to stay together until marriage, then whether you do it now, a few more months, or until you're married won't really make that much of a difference.

So I think you should wait... you're still a little bit confused, and you don't want to regret the decision that you've made.  So give it a bit more time and see if you can be a bit more confident in being ready for the commitment.  There's nothing wrong with waiting, and there's nothing wrong with not being ready...


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for all who does not understand what i mean by " cutting my v-card" : Those who symbolize virginity with a v-card, by cutting it, it means you're terminating it therefore losing the virginity, as you would terminate any other cards by cutting it.


and kks thanks guys.

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