so say your bf broke up with you for two weeks. you thought it was over for good so you had sex with another guy. well now i don't want to tell my bf that i had sex with another guy because he'll leave me for sure. we weren't dating at the time so i shouldn't have to tell him should i?
1:21 pm on Oct. 30, 2009
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You don't have to but shit will hit the fan if he finds out probably.
He was probably off doing the same anyway.
Post edited at 1:22 pm on Oct. 30, 2009 by i r sekz
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nope you should not. as long as the other guy didnt really mean anything and was a rebound. uness he asks though cause never lie.
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Quote: from xx rachy xx at 1:23 pm on Oct. 30, 2009
nope you should not. as long as the other guy didnt really mean anything and was a rebound. uness he asks though cause never lie.
i don't think he'd ask such an indepth question.
1:24 pm on Oct. 30, 2009
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iv had that happen to me accept i didnt break up with the chick, we just werent dating yet. AND IT REALLY FUCKING PISSED ME OFF.
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As in the wise words of Ross Geller.
WE WERE ON A BREAK!
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Wow... This is actually a very common situation. In actuality no you two were not dating so you sleeping with someone else is.... not a bad thing. But when you are trying to get back with your boyfriend... its also not logically. Your fling with the other guy was just a rebound thing. My advice though is to tell him. Because if he really wants to be with you, nothing should stand in the way of that. Honesty is the one of the most important things in a relationship, especially when you are trying to start over and get back on track. And if you keep this a secret it will not only bother you, but the effect if he finds out will be 10x worst!!! Leaving ya'll back a square one. So tell him, in a rational way explaining everything. Thats the only way you guys will really move forward
Post edited at 1:36 pm on Oct. 30, 2009 by Gifted Curse
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When you tell him, say the dude sucked in bed. Even if he didn't. It's a good esteem boost.
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Tell him the truth
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Quote: from skaBDriven at 4:25 pm on Oct. 30, 2009
iv had that happen to me accept i didnt break up with the chick, we just werent dating yet. AND IT REALLY FUCKING PISSED ME OFF.
I'm sorry....
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Live by this motto: "Ask me no questions, and I shall tell you no lies."
But seriously, don't mention it. If he asks, tell him you gotta be straight with him...and you did see another guy. But reinforce with him that it was just an emotional swing from breaking up...and that you dont' have feelings for the other guy, like you do for him.
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Live by this motto: "Ask me no questions, and I shall tell you no lies."
But seriously, don't mention it. If he asks, tell him you gotta be straight with him...and you did see another guy. But reinforce with him that it was just an emotional swing from breaking up...and that you dont' have feelings for the other guy, like you do for him.
yea and he wont ask because he trusts me
4:31 pm on Nov. 4, 2009
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I would omit the facts.. I mean you two were broken up, so.. technically its fair game.
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nope you should not. as long as the other guy didnt really mean anything and was a rebound. uness he asks though cause never lie.
I'm sorry.... 
