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Replies: 5 — Last Post Oct. 31 2:49am by SpRiNgS
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I feel like such an awful person atm. I even considered cutting myself and possibly ending my life that way no one would have to worry about me and the pain that I am/was going through. I am in current relationship at the moment. It just was going down a real rocky road. And I had a male friend (I'm a girl) who tried to help me through it. And over the course of time, we realized that I/we can try to help my relationship, but if the other half isn't willing to change its not going to change. So my friend gave me two months to straighten out my relationship. And I had agreed to it. He wanted to see the better life for me. And if I was leaving, he even considered one day dating me possibly. Because I called him one night bawling my eyes out over something that had happened in my relationship, which was over a year ago now. And that day is when he realized that he was in love with me. Though, he didn't tell me until here about a week or two ago. Today, was supposed to be the day he and friend come get me and start a whole new better life for me. But yesterday I was sick on stomach when he called and wanted to hold off on this weekend. He dropped to his knees and cried so much =( I just feel so awful because he had went and rented a van for my stuff, filled it up with gas, took off  of work, but drinks and food. I'm half tempted to get a bus ticket and just take a bag of clothes and that be it. He said hes starting school next week and cant come to get me now. And that if I wasn't there by midnight on November 1st he'd have to move on and window would no longer be open, because wed been planning this for 8 months now. My moms having surgery on Monday (didnt find out until yesterday). Its really hard. =( What should i do? ***cries***
2:22 am on Oct. 31, 2009
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i am sorry to hear u feel that way , thats life...
it sucks

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So just to clarify, you want to be with this guy right?  You just couldn't bring yourself to do it when the time came?  

Honestly, I don't understand his deadline.  If you loves you so much and you're willing to leave your current life to come stay with him, there should be a little room for mind changing in there.  Ya know?  Is it possible at all for you to get back to him?  You can't take a bus to his place?  With a suitcase full of your things?

It just seems like the physical distance between you two is something that can be overcome.  Regardless, cutting yourself over this isn't going to fix it.  It's just going to make you feel worse in the end.  This can be worked out.  Don't give up hope completely on it.

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Quote: from greatescape at 2:38 am on Oct. 31, 2009
So just to clarify, you want to be with this guy right?  You just couldn't bring yourself to do it when the time came?  

Honestly, I don't understand his deadline.  If you loves you so much and you're willing to leave your current life to come stay with him, there should be a little room for mind changing in there.  Ya know?  Is it possible at all for you to get back to him?  You can't take a bus to his place?  With a suitcase full of your things?

It just seems like the physical distance between you two is something that can be overcome.  Regardless, cutting yourself over this isn't going to fix it.  It's just going to make you feel worse in the end.  This can be worked out.  Don't give up hope completely on it.

Thank you. :) I just hopes that he understands. If not, then I may not have any other choice. I will do my part into try to make it work. As of right now, he's saying he's done everything he knows to do. I feel somewhat better now, thank you so so so much.

2:46 am on Oct. 31, 2009
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I know it seems like all is lost but I'm sure there's still some chance to get back to him. That and if he's gone this far with you and waited for you this long, he should be able to wait until your full mentally and physically to go through with this. Once you call him up or talk to him next I'm sure he'll be ready. He's been through thick and thin with you he can't stop now


Cutting yourself is only going to hurt you and him, and drag you further down, not really doing anything positive. sure it may feel good to hurt yourself in the meanwhile but you'll have that scar as a mental reminder of something bad and you don't want that to start your new life do you? noooo, just try communicating to your friend. I'm sure he's ready for you when you're ready :)

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