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Girls: If a guy who you didn't know very well asked you out to coffee
Would you think it was a date?
Replies: 15Last Post Nov. 3 10:45am by Stormblazer
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I've only hung out with this girl in group settings. I want to see her more so I've tried to get our groups to hang out again, but it's not easy trying to coordinate that many people. I wanted all of us to hang out during Halloween but it just didn't end up happening.

Should I just take the plunge and ask her to coffee? Will I seem too eager?


7:56 am on Nov. 1, 2009
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It's not a date, you're just being gentle, but don't get full of yourself, it's just a coffee, that doesn't mean she's into you.

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Go for it! I wouldn't be weirded out. I think it's best to show a girl your true intentions from the start. It's better that way because if you develop a friendship first, it's hard to leave that friend zone.

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Go for it.:)

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Oh yes

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just ask her out. If you don't try, it's almost definite that you won't get to spend any time alone with her. Go for it

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doTHEchickenDANCE


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I don't see why not.

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EmileeM14


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go out in a smaller group a couple times and then see how things go, if it looks like she likes you - ask her out for a coffee

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I would think he wanted to get to know me!!
Yes, take the plunge, you know you wanna  
Just say you think it'll be a good chance to talk to her or something!!
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Go for it! Even if she doesn't see it as a date, she might grow more interested in you during a one on one situation. A date might follow.

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you will sound like you want to hang out with her, which is a good thing

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YES. But there will be a lot of tension and maybe awkward silences at first so you should run up to her and pull down her skirt.

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Definitely ask her!

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xcutioners


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Ask her.



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morrisonsMYmuse


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coffee and conversation to get to know her better.. it's not exactly a commitment.. you're fine. definitely ask her..

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