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In love with my coworker!
Replies: 12Last Post Oct. 28 12:42pm by Anonymous
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Ok so I met this guy at work n we became really cool friends. We always went to lunch together did just about everything at work together. So one time at a job party we kissed n from there everything just was about us. We started being closer to eachother he was the most sweetest romantic guy ever. But there was just one problem I already had a bf. And I insisted dat the kiss meant nothing but it meant everthing. Then me n him started hanging out outside of work n I just fell for him so hard. Me n my bf started having problems. We broke up repeatedly but not over the other guy more becuz we just weren't seeing eye to eye. So me n this other guy started seeing eachother it was just so good. But we kept it a secret from our other friends at the job. He was everything I could ask for but then my ex bf wanted to make up so we did. Completely forgetting about the coworker I was already dating. So I told my coworker n he still wanted to be with me behind my bf's back so we did. Then we got into an arguement I told him I wanted nothing to do with him n we broke up. But now we're still working together, still friends but I can't help but feel like I may actually be in love with him. N I can't tell him cuz I don't wanna ruin our friendship or my relationship with my bf. So wat should I do about my feelings?

10:43 am on Oct. 28, 2009
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Go along with them

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If you're cheating on the dude, you might as well break up with him.

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I'm loving one of my co-workers... but he's 41 (literally looks 26) and has a 9 year old daughter and a girlfriend.  But damn, I can never stop thinking about him.  

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i would go with the co-worker

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You're a bitch for using both of them.

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Sorry for not using paragraphs I'm writing it thru my phone.. Here's da thing my coworker doesn't know I still have these feelings for him.. N I haven't broken up wit my bf cuz I don't wanna make da wrong choice.. I'm completely confused.. N in love wit 2 totally different guys..

10:53 am on Oct. 28, 2009
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ask the coworker if he wud like to just hangout, and take it from there.

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Sorry for not writing in paragraphs but I'm doing this thru my phone.. My coworker doesn't know I'm still feeling this way for him.. N I don't wanna ruin our friendship or my relationship wit my bf over this becuz I don't wanna make da wrong choice.. I'm in love n so confused.. Idk wat I should do

11:12 am on Oct. 28, 2009
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Quote: from RIMHfire at 10:49 am on Oct. 28, 2009

You're a bitch for using both of them.
.       You must have never been confused before.. I used to think just like u n I was this innocent girl who never did anything bad but when u grow up u realize dat deceit is a part of life n mistakes are a part of being human.. I love my bf n I'm not using him I'm just confused n as for the other guy he wanted this.. He wanted to be with my bf or no bf. I never wanted to hurt anyone..

11:26 am on Oct. 28, 2009
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Actually deceit is not a part of life, and in fact is only an excuse for those who won't admit how greatly they regret it. Mistakes yes, deceit no. Deceit can be a mistake made, but its what you do to make up for those mistakes that is part of life.

If you want to do the right thing, you shouldnt see either of them, for their sakes, because it seems youre only making their lives more hectic than it needs to be.

However if you can somehow make up with whoever you truly care about, and ONLY care about in that way, and can actually stay faithful to him, then by all means, try and fix the relationship. But just so you know, if you do that, it will never work if you keep BOTH of them in your life, even if the other is simply a friend.

In short, you can only have one of them at this point. Trying to do otherwise would be selfish, and foolish because it would only end in all three of you getting hurt, angry and probably someone would get beat down because of it.

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Your right n I completely respect ur opinion nick.. There is no excuse for wat I did n even if deceit were apart of life I still wouldn't wanna be a part of dat.. I feel really bad but telling my bf wat I did is completely selfish becuz all its gonna do is hurt him n set my concious free.. I don't wanna do dat but I will lwt him go n ill tell him I'm no good n u should stay away from me.. N as for da coworker we're not together at all right now.. He's just a friend..

12:42 pm on Oct. 28, 2009
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