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Replies: 3Last Post Oct. 14 12:38am by acausedelle
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Ok... So I am a plus size teenager. I have never had a boyfriend or my first kiss. I am not 600 lbs. or even close... I have curves. Why is it that guys judge girls by the way the look and don't care about their personality. Personally I am a fun, loving, and caring person. My friends and family are like my number one priority. One of my friends even told me that he talked to me in the 1st place because of my personality. Please help me understand this.

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When guys are young and even through life we can be a little shallow. Some more then others. While in our teen years, we want what we want. If that means a skinny girl. Then that means skinny. If we want a little more. Then we'll get a little more. Its all up to the guy. There are guys out there who dont care and look past the weight. Finding them as you know is the hard part.

Looks are a big part of attraction. If someone is not physically attracted to you, then it is hard for them to even want to get to know you on a deeper level. But all is not lost. You can meet plenty of guys in the future. But you have to be proud of who you are and pursue them. You'll get vibes from guys who are interested. If you seem to get none. Keep living. One will come eventually.

Personal advice. Why not just lose some weight? Its healthy? Hard, but worth it in the end. Confidence boost. And everything else will seem to fall in place.

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good advice. I am losing weight and have been doing really well until... I was diagnosed with a thyroid problem.

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Well, there's no real way to explain it besides that teenagers are shallow. Don't think that it's just your weight though. If your personality is good, but just shy in talking to boys, that could be your downfall. Remember that most boys DO NOT want to make the first move.

If I may talk about myself for a moment, I'm very skinny, and I think of myself as attractive, but I don't get into any relationships because I'm shy. Even if you aren't shy, you might want to talk to more guys, and be open for more relationships that you didn't see before. You'd never know that some of the best guys out there like you, but they just don't want to admit it.

If you really think that this is your main problem, then do something about it! Try working out, and losing a few pounds. See what the girls in relationships are doing differently than you are, but don't change yourself, work with what you've got!

Above all, teenagers are shallow. I'll say that about guys AND girls, because it's all in our hormones. If you can't get the best, then you're going to have to settle for second best until you CAN get the best. The teenage years are often the hardest ones, and you'll just have to live through it. Almost all of us go through times where we just can't get into a relationship, but we've gotten through it. I'm sure that you will too.

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