Yeah it is frustrating that way, it always feels like your giving and giving and not getting anything back. You know your right though, wear what you want. Your not trying to impress anyone by the way you look so why the need to dress up...there is none. I done the same, i realised that there isent anyone im trying to impress by looking pretty and wearing make up all the time so i stopped and you know it made me feel better about myself and people still compliment me on my looks so i dont feel ugly. You wear what you want to wear.