(If this is too long, I apologize.) I've been dating this one guy for a while now and, for some reason, I've been a bit worried about what his intentions with me are. Like....if he really cares about me or if he's just with me for the possibility of getting laid one day. He says he isn't like that, but he seems to talk about sex a lot (then again, he could just be a typical guy on that part because it's not like he pressures me to do anything). I told him last night about my worries and this is how our conversation went: Me: There's way too many guys out there that only want sex out of a relationship.
Him: Well...I really dunno anymore.
Me: Huh? What don't you know?
Him: I dunno....anything could happen.
Me: Well...just so you aren't one of those guys who only look for sexual pleasure in a relationship because that's kind of something I worry about.
Him: Well...I was in a relationship with somebody for a year and everybody kept asking me, "How come aren't you fucking her yet?" and I just told them that sex isn't something you should pressure on somebody. You need to wait for the right time before you decide to do anything.
So...am I just worrying over nothing or what? I do have a tendency to worry over things that aren't even a major deal.....is this one of those times? Because I've been in this kind of relationship before and a part of me wants to believe him...but there's a part of me that doesn't quite believe him.
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All guys want to get laid, all of them, so he does as well as every other guy on earth... 
