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Ex-boyfriend liking me again?
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My ex-boyfriend (lets call him, Max) and I dated for 3 months and 5 days. He broke up with me saying, "I wasn't the right girl for him." But I think that was just an excuse. Because he was the first one to say I love you to me and he said I was the one for him. He started talking about teh future and college and then all of sudden he started acting all weird. He broke up with me. My heart was broken. He went out with his friend (lets call her Brooke). Brooke and Max went out for 3 months and 4 days. He broke up with her because Brooke was too busy to be in a relationship. I dated three guys after Max broke up with me. All three didn't work out. I was still in love with Max.  

We have these Taste of whatever by my house for like 5 days with rides, food, and concerts. I hung out with Max for 3 days so far. Yesterday, July 4th, we meet up with our friends and we watched the fireworks on a blanket. Max moved closer to me and put his hand out....so I put my hand out too and we held hands. We didn't kiss or he didn't ask me to go back out with him though. But when his mom dropped me off last night, he texted me saying, "Thank you for being the nicest person to me. I have never had someone so nice to me." He invited me to the last day of the Taste today.  

Does Max, my ex-boyfriend, that I still am in love with and only want to be, likes me again? Or just leading me on?

P.S. While he were dating, he hated this American Eagle t-shirt and I loved it, so whenever I was with him he would wear that shirt sometimes. Last night he wore that shirt. :) That he hates and that I love.

P.S.S. When we were holding hands, he was breathing heavly and was shaking a little bit. Max has always been nervous around me when we first started dating.

Post edited at 10:07 am on July 5, 2009 by JMfan


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It sounds like he does like you. I wouldn't make the first move though, because he ended things so it's up to him to initiate again. Make it clear how you feel about him, and make sure you have alone moments at the last day, but also let him take his time :)

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I think the only way you would really know is to ask the man, all these little things could be things he's randomly done that he didn't expect you to pick up on and over-analyse. You really need to discuss it with him if you want to know what he wants, you ned to have open level of communication, if you can't communicate, there isn't too much point in even entertaining the idea of being together.

They COULD be signs of him liking you, they could also be random things he has decided to do that have no bearing on how he feels about you, whatsoever.

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aw, i dont think he is leading you on because maybe he has realized through dating others that you are the right girl, if he was leading you on i believe that he would have done other stuff.

good luck with him and  hope it all works out darling.

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Thank you Leannbby! :)

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Quote: from JMfan at 1:15 pm on July 5, 2009

Thank you Leannbby! :)

you are very welcome (:

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awww no he isn't leading you on
talk it out with him when he your alone maybe
he's finally realized what you were to him :)

hope it works out.


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Quote: from JMfan at 6:15 pm on July 5, 2009

Thank you Leannbby! :)

its amusing you thank the person who tells you what you want to hear.

I'd agree with Mimic, you need to talk to this guy, he might just miss it, bcause he might be lonely.

he might not want to be with you again, at all.

we have no idea

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Aw, that's so sweet. :)

I, honestly, think he does like you.  He's done these little things to give you the hint.  When there's a bond between two people, one way or another, it always pulls them together.
I think the reason behind breaking up with you was probably because he was loving you so much, that it would hurt if you or him had a serious problem one day.  So he probably tried to avoid that heartbreak.  Regardless, I think he's over that and wants something with you.  Your love.

I know, from my own experience.  I had a girl that I started loving so much, too early.  I ended the relationship because I was afraid she would do me wrong one day.  Or me to her.  But soon enough, I was back with her.  And now look.  We've been together for 17 months.

I wish you the best of luck with "Max"...



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