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Stupid relationship question
Replies: 5 — Last Post July 9 6:07pm by Stormblazer
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Me and my bf have been dating for a while and I'm a bit worried on what his attentions are when it comes to sex. For a while, he said that he wanted to wait until marriage before we did anything. Now, after I tell him that I do too, he says that people should only get married if they want kids and if two people care about each other enough, they could break the rule of waiting until marriage. But he also mentioned that sex shouldn't be pressured on anybody and that if I want to wait until marriage then he understood. Now, I kind of have trust issues and I somehow think that he's trying to guilt trip me into having sex with him earlier by throwing the whole "if two people really care about each other" bit.

I don't know....it may just me being a worry wort. This has happened to me before....and I just don't want it to happen again.  

12:49 pm on July 9, 2009
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Fuck him and GTHO

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Hes a player. probly not a virgin and just wants sex. sorry

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wait for marriage. be safe.

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If you really want to wait for marriage, then do so. Don't let this guy pressure you into doing something you don't want to do when you aren't ready. If he's worth it he won't pressure you and will wait.

IT kind of sounds like he's saying he's not sure he wants to wait anymore, I think you need to talk this over with him instead of leaving it open to interpretation. Ask him if he seriously wants to go back on that decision, but make it clear you don't want to and are not ready to have sex even if he has changed his mind.

Do not give into him. If he's worth it, he'll wait until you're ready, or for marriage  if thats when you really want to wait until.

If he's not prepared to, I'd say get out.

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He could just be being honest too, and prefers that you make the decision on this. He'd be lying if he said he doesn't want sex afterall, unless he's asexual, everyine's got a libido.

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