He gets mad though when my brothers eating because he's not spending time with him  

We had pound cake and my older brother was eating some outside. My little brother got mad that he was eating it so he took it from him and threw it on the neighbors yard and it made a mess. He should know better because my little brother is like 7 years old  

Anyways when my dad found out he said " So you threw the cake over there huh?" And he spanked him a couple times and then all of a sudden *Boom Boom* he spanked him hard and I thought my dad was done spanking him but he came back for more and I was like " Oh shit!". He spanked him like 8 times and my little brother was like " OW! OW! Am I in trouble!? D:" and my dad was like " Yes you are! You don't do that! Now go pick it up!".

I think this spanking is well deserved because he acts like a brat when my dad isn't around. He says things like " I hate this family" and " Shutup I can do whatever I want". I spank him too but it only makes him talk more crap. But when my dad or mom spanks him he just Shuts the fuck up.

Post edited at 4:35 pm on July 5, 2009 by Moonscar

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wait i'm a youngest

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sounds like u ahve a kinky family

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It's not kinky

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Ugh I have a younger brother (not quite as young as yours...he's 15) but he NEVER shuts up and is always attempting to annoy me.

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LoL I'm 15.

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Quote: from newmie66 at 6:01 pm on July 5, 2009

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Ugh I have a younger brother (not quite as young as yours...he's 15) but he NEVER shuts up and is always attempting to annoy me.

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LoL I'm 15.

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Just the basic fact that you're on here doing something quiet like Livewire makes you 239480239 times less annoying than he is. He CAN'T sit down and be quiet for 10 seconds.

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You should know that it is not your responsibility to spank your brother.  All you are doing is picking up the bad examples that your parents are displaying.  How would you like to be a 7 year old that is always being beaten by older people.  You are effectively ruining his future.  Hope you are proud.

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Spanking/beating is what happens when an adult uses force and not their brains. It occurs when parents don't have the mental capacity or the patience to discipline in a humane manner. It doesn't instill anything in a child except fear, not respect. Discipline is a continuos and consistent process that requires setting an example, establishing parental respect and establishing the desire in the child to make the parent happy with their behavior. Inconsistent discipline influences a child to test their parents limits. One day their bad behavior is overlooked and the next day they are whipped. Confusing to a child.

You should know that it is not your responsibility to spank your brother. All you are doing is picking up the bad examples that your parents are displaying. How would you like to be a 7 year old that is always being beaten by older people. You are effectively ruining his future. Hope you are proud.

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You obviously don't know enough about my family. My family gives both old fashioned spankings and punishments. People spank their children all the time in the old days and guess what? I lot of them came out successful. My parents got spankings and it shaped them up. Not that it was the only thing practiced like I said before. I got spankings and I am a good student, don't talk back to my parents and have good values. Don't criticize me for doing it. Sometimes it's needed and sometimes it's not. It's the old fashioned way and if you don't think it's effective then why is it that kids were more behaved back then than they are now? Ask yourself that question. I don't give my little brother beatings all the time but if he needs to be taught I lesson I do it. My mother and father are wonderful parents. My sister got spankings and she is a well behaved intelligent individual. I got spankings. The only one who didn't get them was my brother because he's autistic. He's gentle and kind anyways so there's no problem there.

No offense but you are on some lily squeaky clean crap. A lot of black people raise their kids that way. I got spankings from my grandma. I love her.

What you're saying only applies to people who maliciously beat their children when it is not even necessary. Besides my little brother said he was sorry and gave my dad a hug. They were then back to laughing and joking around. He is so scared of him    

Post edited at 7:44 am on July 6, 2009 by Moonscar

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Get off the lilly squeaky crap comment.  People hit people because they don't know any better way.  If you have never been taught another way then you will never understand.  One of these days your lights will come on...hopefully.  

You obviously don't know enough about my family. My family gives both old fashioned spankings and punishments. People spank their children all the time in the old days and guess what? I lot of them came out successful. My parents got spankings and it shaped them up. Not that it was the only thing practiced like I said before. I got spankings and I am a good student, don't talk back to my parents and have good values. Don't criticize me for doing it. Sometimes it's needed and sometimes it's not. It's the old fashioned way and if you don't think it's effective then why is it that kids were more behaved back then than they are now? Ask yourself that question. I don't give my little brother beatings all the time but if he needs to be taught I lesson I do it. My mother and father are wonderful parents. My sister got spankings and she is a well behaved intelligent individual. I got spankings. The only one who didn't get them was my brother because he's autistic. He's gentle and kind anyways so there's no problem there.  

 
No offense but you are on some lily squeaky clean crap. A lot of black people raise their kids that way. I got spankings from my grandma. I love her.

What you're saying only applies to people who maliciously beat their children when it is not even necessary. Besides my little brother said he was sorry and gave my dad a hug. They were then back to laughing and joking around. He is so scared of him

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I have never been spanked or hit in my entire life.  I respect and trust my parents, not fear them.  They never had to hit me to get correct me because they were smart enough to earn my respect without it.  This is not the old days.  People did it because no one taught them how to discipline. I wouldn't think of talking back to my parents.  I have no reason to.  They respect me and always have.  If we have a disagreement on something we sit down and talk about it in a humane manner.  One doesn't demand respect, you earn it.  I am not criticizing you but only offering you another way to discipline and correct people that are doing something they shouldn't.  There were a lot less kids, a lot more work that had to be done and fewer people were educated "back then."   Do you kick your dog when it does something that you don't like?  Do you like to be whipped?  Would you like to be talked to about and not hit like an animal?  You have no right to hit your brother.  All you are doing is making him hate you and if that is what you want him to do then you are going to be successful.  Wouldn't it feel better if you could earn his respect and get him to do things that he should without whipping him?  It is much more effective but you are don't know any better way because you have never been taught.  

Get off the lilly squeaky crap comment.  People hit people because they don't know any better way.  If you have never been taught another way then you will never understand.  One of these days your lights will come on...hopefully.    

You obviously don't know enough about my family. My family gives both old fashioned spankings and punishments. People spank their children all the time in the old days and guess what? I lot of them came out successful. My parents got spankings and it shaped them up. Not that it was the only thing practiced like I said before. I got spankings and I am a good student, don't talk back to my parents and have good values. Don't criticize me for doing it. Sometimes it's needed and sometimes it's not. It's the old fashioned way and if you don't think it's effective then why is it that kids were more behaved back then than they are now? Ask yourself that question. I don't give my little brother beatings all the time but if he needs to be taught I lesson I do it. My mother and father are wonderful parents. My sister got spankings and she is a well behaved intelligent individual. I got spankings. The only one who didn't get them was my brother because he's autistic. He's gentle and kind anyways so there's no problem there.  

 
No offense but you are on some lily squeaky clean crap. A lot of black people raise their kids that way. I got spankings from my grandma. I love her.

What you're saying only applies to people who maliciously beat their children when it is not even necessary. Besides my little brother said he was sorry and gave my dad a hug. They were then back to laughing and joking around. He is so scared of him

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I'm not reading all that. And I don't respect my parents because I fear them. I do it because I love them and I thank them for raising me right. Don't judge me or my parents for how they were brought up or how they brought me up or you will get told. You don't have to offer me anything. I am fine the way I am and my family is fine. My lights are already on, yours are broken because you seem to be judging me for something you don't even understand.

And my parents don't have to earn my respect. I should give it to them automatically. And not knowing any better isn't even an issue. You think it makes kids hate their parents and go down a bad road. Please. Kids who actually got spankings and discipline turned out to be great people. And your way works no better if not worse. Things get out of control when you don't set a standard of authority and. A lot of bratty kids who you see on Dr.Phil are apart of families who don't set a standard of authority or fear. God himself wants you to fear him but love him. It's not a "Fear me all the time" thing. It's a "Love me and hold a relationship with me but if you act like a fool you should fear my wrath to guide you back in the right direction" relationship.

Kids who are traumatized by a simple spanking are the same kids who cry when they get out at dodgeball. Shit there's kids who cry when they get it in tag.

Post edited at 12:14 pm on July 6, 2009 by Moonscar

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I'm not reading all that. And I don't respect my parents because I fear them. I do it because I love them and I thank them for raising me right. Don't judge me or my parents for how they were brought up or how they brought me up or you will get told. You don't have to offer me anything. I am fine the way I am and my family is fine. My lights are already on, yours are broken because you seem to be judging me for something you don't even understand.

And my parents don't have to earn my respect. I should give it to them automatically. And not knowing any better isn't even an issue. You think it makes kids hate their parents and go down a bad road. Please. Kids who actually got spankings and discipline turned out to be great people. And your way works no better if not worse. Things get out of control when you don't set a standard of authority and. A lot of bratty kids who you see on Dr.Phil are apart of families who don't set a standard of authority or fear. God himself wants you to fear him but love him. It's not a "Fear me all the time" thing. It's a "Love me and hold a relationship with me but if you act like a fool you should fear my wrath to guide you back in the right direction" relationship.

Kids who are traumatized by a simple spanking are the same kids who cry when they get out at dodgeball. Shit there's kids who cry when they get it in tag.

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So now you have brought God into the picture.  I don't guess we have the same God.  Yours approves the abuse of children.  It takes a really brave, religious, kind and gentle person to "tear up your little brother's ass" as you have proudly claimed.  This is a mentality that is not only ignorant but just about as backward as one can get.  Sorry, but we are from different planets, different generations and different cultures.   I think the best thing is to close this conversation with you.   I don't agree with anything that you are saying.  Sorry, I have to go down the hall to care for a child that is crying from the pain and fear she is having from a chemo therapy treatment for cancer.  You would probably beat the little girl but I am more inclined to put her in a rocking chair, hold her close and hope she gets some peace and comfort from it.    

I'm not reading all that. And I don't respect my parents because I fear them. I do it because I love them and I thank them for raising me right. Don't judge me or my parents for how they were brought up or how they brought me up or you will get told. You don't have to offer me anything. I am fine the way I am and my family is fine. My lights are already on, yours are broken because you seem to be judging me for something you don't even understand.  

And my parents don't have to earn my respect. I should give it to them automatically. And not knowing any better isn't even an issue. You think it makes kids hate their parents and go down a bad road. Please. Kids who actually got spankings and discipline turned out to be great people. And your way works no better if not worse. Things get out of control when you don't set a standard of authority and. A lot of bratty kids who you see on Dr.Phil are apart of families who don't set a standard of authority or fear. God himself wants you to fear him but love him. It's not a "Fear me all the time" thing. It's a "Love me and hold a relationship with me but if you act like a fool you should fear my wrath to guide you back in the right direction" relationship.  

Kids who are traumatized by a simple spanking are the same kids who cry when they get out at dodgeball. Shit there's kids who cry when they get it in tag.

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You consider spankings to be abuse. That I can't help you with. I know one thing though. I will not stand by and let you call me or my family ignorant just because you want to be a bigot.  

You have shown nothing but immaturity throughout this whole conversation. Also stop acting as if hardly any families give spankings anymore. It still goes on as the norm. Abuse and spanking a child for being bad are two different things. My family doesn't spank babies, or anyone who is below the age where they would know better. I don't know where you have been. But just because a family gives spankings does not mean they abuse or beat their child. Most spankings aren't even violent. Just a wake up call.

You have shown nothing except the fact that you are someone with strict views who would persecute anyone that goes against your own without even knowing them. I don't beat children miss, sir or whatever you are and I don't think you have the right to jump to conclusions over my family. Especially if you are trying to accuse me and my family of being abusive and violent over simple spankings. You may not agree with spankings and that's fine, but you saying that it hurts the child and makes them have a terrible life is ridiculous and an example of your bigotry.  

In conclusion.

Just because a family gives spankings once in a while doesn't mean they are violent. My family only gives spankings when it's gotten to the point where they need to learn a lesson.  

Post edited at 2:37 pm on July 6, 2009 by Moonscar

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