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Girlfriend Enlisted in Army
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Before we met, she enlisted in the army for an 8 year term...I love the girl more than anything in my life, and im not sure what to expect from this......i know the process she has to go through, i have family going through it.  But, im not sure how her being in the military is going to affect our relationship.  The last thing i want is it to be ended, she means everything to me.
8:58 pm on July 5, 2009
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It isn't eight years. I bet she signed for four years active. The other four years is when she  is inactive, but can still be called.

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Either way, what can i expect?
9:00 pm on July 5, 2009
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Like the first post said, and its going to affect your relationship in a pretty big way.

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Oh.  Ouch.  Just spend all the time you can with her now, and as much time as you possibly can when she gets leave, can talk otp or otc, that kind of stuff.  Plus think of the funny stuff when you're down...  like how she'll be able to kick your ass ten ways to Sunday.

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Is she reserves or Active?

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when is she leaving for BCT? (basic training)

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Hey if you want you can message me and ask w-e you want. theres alot you can expect Ive been in that boat before.

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If she's enlisted she can't really do anything. Just stand by her memory and do what you can if you wanna stick to it.

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Quote: from soaringfalcon2010 at 11:02 pm on July 5, 2009
Hey if you want you can message me and ask w-e you want. theres alot you can expect Ive been in that boat before.

Same goes for here, i have been through the other side and know what she will/ is going through and know what you can do to assist and how to be there

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Quote: from soaringfalcon2010 at 12:02 am on July 6, 2009
Hey if you want you can message me and ask w-e you want. theres alot you can expect Ive been in that boat before.


Yes you can message me too i am going through the same wit my boyfriend

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Quote: from PrintingFreak at 9:02 pm on July 5, 2009
when is she leaving for BCT? (basic training)

I know the terminolgoy, i was looking at enlisting before i met her, only to find that they wouldnt take me until i get 15 college credits under my belt.

She leaves next summer, but the fact that we both know its coming, it bugs her, ive caught her crying about it, and it has pretty much the same effect on me.

9:05 pm on July 5, 2009
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Quote: from Anonymous at 12:05 am on July 6, 2009
Quote: from PrintingFreak at 9:02 pm on July 5, 2009
when is she leaving for BCT? (basic training)

I know the terminolgoy, i was looking at enlisting before i met her, only to find that they wouldnt take me until i get 15 college credits under my belt.  

She leaves next summer, but the fact that we both know its coming, it bugs her, ive caught her crying about it, and it has pretty much the same effect on me.

They will take you now, you have to have 15 credits to become a PFC I do believe. It's better when you work your way up in grade.

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Quote: from Forgot My Name at 9:07 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 12:05 am on July 6, 2009
Quote: from PrintingFreak at 9:02 pm on July 5, 2009
when is she leaving for BCT? (basic training)
 

 I know the terminolgoy, i was looking at enlisting before i met her, only to find that they wouldnt take me until i get 15 college credits under my belt.

 She leaves next summer, but the fact that we both know its coming, it bugs her, ive caught her crying about it, and it has pretty much the same effect on me.

They will take you now, you have to have 15 credits to become a PFC I do believe. It's better when you work your way up in grade.

You have to have a high school diploma though........which, i am lacking.

9:09 pm on July 5, 2009
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