tell my boy friend everytime i purge but it hurts him so much when i tell him! What should i do? How can i tell him? I can't stop it's to hard and i need to loose the weight, i don't have one of those eating disorders i am just loosing a few kilos and making myself skinny. How can i tell him i purged again?
12:16 am on July 7, 2009
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ughh, jsut try not to purge. thats very off putting
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You DO have one of those eating disorders! Forget about telling your boyfriend. Tell a doctor!
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They both already know, well the school coucellor....and he wants me to tell him everytime i do.
12:19 am on July 7, 2009
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Purging is not an effective way to loose weight. He is worried about you and he knows that purging is damaging your health, in some cases its damaging your health beyond repair. Go out for a jog, do some situps, dont eat junky foods.
The only way to tell him is straight up.
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i know how u feel but for me i just told mi bf and he makes me eat and stuff
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Purging is not the best way to go. I'm not saying your ill-intentioned, I mean everyone wants to be thinner. There are just better ways to go about losing the weight. You can go to the gym or take walks around your neighborhood. Purging can be dangerous. And take it from someone with experience.. Eating disorders always start as "Losing a little weight" it's best to cut off the possibility of developing one before the behaviour sets in as a routine.
About telling your boyfriend.. You should just tell him the honest truth. True it may hurt him. But he seems like he wants to know for a reason most likely so that he can help you, if you get to a state where your not in control.
Just explain your feeling's and how hard it is for you to control the purging.
If you need any advice or anything feel free to PM me.
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Purging is not the best way to go. I'm not saying your ill-intentioned, I mean everyone wants to be thinner. There are just better ways to go about losing the weight. You can go to the gym or take walks around your neighborhood. Purging can be dangerous. And take it from someone with experience.. Eating disorders always start as "Losing a little weight" it's best to cut off the possibility of developing one before the behaviour sets in as a routine.
About telling your boyfriend.. You should just tell him the honest truth. True it may hurt him. But he seems like he wants to know for a reason most likely so that he can help you, if you get to a state where your not in control.
Just explain your feeling's and how hard it is for you to control the purging.
If you need any advice or anything feel free to PM me.
THanksyou soo much :) that helped heaps :) ill try :)
12:29 am on July 7, 2009
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You cannot hold the truth from those you love. Your boyfriend loves you and if you do not tell him you lose the trust he once had in you. You have to see that this is not good for you.
In all honesty, you do have an easting disorder and you do have to do something about it. Purging is bad for you and purging is just something you simply do not need to do. If you hold back this kind of thing from him you run the risk of losing him and he, obviously cares for you because he's pressuring you to stop.
If you purge tell him, but I am begging of you to stop that practice and instead use your self control to hold yourself back from doing it. You can get past this and if it requires having someone follow you around to ensure everything is okay, let it happen. Do not become one of those girls who die from this. Do not become a statistic.
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Purging is not the best way to go. I'm not saying your ill-intentioned, I mean everyone wants to be thinner. There are just better ways to go about losing the weight. You can go to the gym or take walks around your neighborhood. Purging can be dangerous. And take it from someone with experience.. Eating disorders always start as "Losing a little weight" it's best to cut off the possibility of developing one before the behaviour sets in as a routine. 
