Anyway, so I have this friend. She flirts with almost EVERY guy we know... She isn't seriously interested in any of them, but flirts with them to the point where they REALLY believe she is. Then she uses them... then breaks their hearts later on...

Anyway, so she did it to this one guy we knew... I told her that he liked me..
Then she rubbed it in my face that he liked her now..
I wasn't sure if she totally did that on purpose, but I got sad over it...

Well, she led him on for a little while, then messed with him big time...
They stayed friends for a bit, and he eventually told her that he really wanted me, and was just too scared to do anything about it...

After talking a lot and making sense of the whole thing, he and I are now dating <3

She doesn't know for sure yet, but she totally suspects it..

and she is MAD!

Does she have any right to be mad at me?
Did I do anything wrong?!

People keep saying "How could you do that to her?!"
but she told me that she NEVER liked him like that... she even told him that! So, I don't get what the problem is...

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This could be a sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare..
It's love. *06-30-09*

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She's being a jealous bitch, tell her to fuck off.

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ha. exactly that.

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Dont give up;let go.

You've done nothing wrong at all, and you should stand your ground if she or anyone else tries to say you have. She said she never liked him in that way, so you're not stepping on anyones toes. You liked him, he liked you and you have now come to the conclusion to date. This is entirely natural and you should not feel guilty for going after something you want.

Let her know you and this guy have talked it out and want to give it a chance, remind her that she was never serious about this guy, but you are, and could well be into the future. You just want to give it a chance. Remind her of all of the other guys she flirt with if you have to, distract her attention. Say something like "oh so and so is much better for you anyway!"

She's only acting this way because she's lost/losing some of the attention she has received from this guy. Do not feel bad about this, you need to put yourself first sometime and this seems like the time to do it :-)

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I'm the best at what I do

Relationships are always going to be filled with drama, but never let anyone scare you out of a relationship.  She may be jealous, and perhaps she does like him and was just afraid to let you know because she would feel like she was stepping on your toes.  Either way, she doesn't sound like the type of friend I would want.  If she tries to get in between you, you may be better off just not talking to her.  It may hurt both of you for a time, but if she comes back you will know that she is a true friend.  If she doesn' come back it is for the better.

When a girl like that loses the attention of a guy that they were playing with they get jealous.  They typically don't like the guy, but they often try to take them back, or feel inferior because they could not keep the guys attention.  Just be yourself.  Enjoy your relationship and make the best of this.  Don't let a "friend" get in between you and someone you care about.  A true friend wouldn't.  

You also have to remember that your friends should always be there for you, no matter what it is and you should be able to talk it through.  You should tell her, before she just finds out from someone else.  It may seem like it would make it worse, but I am sure she would rather hear it from you.  Don't however try to turn anything around.  Regardless of her feelings toward him she is still going to be hurt.  Try to balance friendship with relationships.  

Make sure you let her know how much you care about this guy.  Reassure her that you are not dating him because of her, that you have wanted to date him and things have finally worked out.  

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If you come across a car accident after midnight, and everyone is sober;
Keep looking, you are missing someone.

-Rules of EMS

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She's being a jealous bitch, tell her to fuck off.

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agreeeed.

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i live where the wild things are:)