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Turning a guy down. How to do it?
Replies: 19Last Post July 3 8:44pm by SimplisticComplexity
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Quote: from SimplisticComplexity at 3:54 pm on July 3, 2009

If you're not interested in him, then why are you going on a date with him?

He is interesting and funny to be around, just not something id like to kiss.

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"Thanks for paying for all my shit, now that that's out of the way, I have no interest in you"
Say it how it is sistah, he'll appreciate the honesty and continue to be your friend.

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Quote: from Kitty Kiska at 5:17 am on July 3, 2009

Im going on a date later on today, i dont mind going and all (he is paying).

But i have to tell him that im not interested in him in the best possible way, because i like hanging around with him (he is just yuk to look at).

How should i say it?

Im not interested in a relationship right now?Im not looking for anything serious? I dont want a guy in my life at the moment? I want to live for myself?

What can i say to be nice about it at the same time?


Just tell him you're not interested in dating him.


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Just be honest, say you like hanging out with him but you don't see him that way. Going out on a date with him isn't too great of an idea though. Saying that he's paying and that's why you don't mind is pretty bad, you're using him at the expense of his money and feelings.

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Quote: from Kitty Kiska at 8:00 pm on July 3, 2009

Quote: from SimplisticComplexity at 3:54 pm on July 3, 2009

If you're not interested in him, then why are you going on a date with him?

He is interesting and funny to be around, just not something id like to kiss.

You can hang out with him without having him pay for your stuff if that's the case.  I don't know, I think that going "on a date" with someone only to tell them that you aren't interested is pretty cruel.  I'd think that would be leading someone on.  If you don't like someone, don't get their hopes up like that...I think it's better just to say from the very beginning that you're not interested, not wait until he's paying for your meal or whatever.  That's just asking for drama.

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