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( whatbrittney )
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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little bit over 2 monthes now and she sees nohting wrong with telling people .. but i dont let her. Should i? Because im almost positive people would think of me differently ..
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Kaijuu
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You should
are you ashamed of her?
if so, you don't deserve her.
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5:28 pm on July 3, 2009 | Joined: Oct. 2008 | Days Active: 166
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Aileyy
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Well you hiding it and being ashamed of it will only give those people more of a reason to think of you differently.
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Just knock me out and walk me through the door
Well I have no desire to see through my own eyes anymore
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5:29 pm on July 3, 2009 | Joined: June 2009 | Days Active: 12
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When I told, people didnt really think of me differently. They saw it in me to begin with.
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Live free and peaceful.
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katkatkat
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if they think of you differently, that's their problem. think of it this way:
it's who you are. if you're that positive about your sexuality at age fourteen, i don't see anything wrong with having a girlfriend. even if you weren't positive, there shouldn't be a problem because you are who you are, and really, nobody should interfere with that. i know you're afraid that people are going to think of you differently, and that's a scary thought. the truth is, some people probably will. keep in mind, though, that there isn't much you can do about it other than roll with the punches. i went through the same thing, and know how difficult a process it is to go through. you'll get through it though. if you ever need to talk to anyone, pm me. i'm all ears.
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ôte maintenant tes souliers
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car ici désormais est la demeure d'un ciel
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Love Me please
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you really should not mind if she tells people i never mind it i just love it
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aejae
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you're... a boy?
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I like to think I was created
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nik1
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Talking about what you do privately with a person is a good indication of her poor character. Violating confidentiality is a no-no and would be a deal breaker for me.
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