so there's this guy that i've been sort of dating but not officially. we've gotten really close the past few weeks and everything is working out. i was unsure at first about dating him and we talked about it and i basically told him that i didn't want to commit to anything yet and just to play things by there. that was like a month ago and things are really working out.
the only thing sort of holding me back now is that he's had a lot of other relationships than i have, and he's a lot more experienced than i am. i'm still a virgin and i don't think he knows that. last night he called and said he wanted to talk and i have a feeling that he is going to see if i want to be his girlfriend. which i am totally down for now, but i don't know if i should bring up being a virgin or what...cause i don't want to lead him on or something if he is expecting sex in a relationship.
also we were hanging out the day before yesterday and he told me his parents are going out of town in a month and he's going to have a little get together with all of our friends and he wanted to know if i wanted to sleep over (he lives out in the boonies) and i agreed...did i agree already to have sex with him or something? because i didn't mean it like that...
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inachair
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well idk. but just go and if he thinks that say no...and bring mace lol
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depends on how the guy is..
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mz pretty01
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no. if he trys just be like look..im a virgin and im not ready yet.
i mean dont give him tha cold shoulder but u dont have to have sex with him either.
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you should tell him then he could decide there
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Rawr69
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No you said you would sleepover not have sex with him unless he assumed it.
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if he does want to be official, then chances he are he wouldn't wana rush you into anything... I hope. but do tell him you're a virgin, I doubt it'll make a difference to how he feels about you!
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danbev
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Quote: from mz pretty01 at 1:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009
no. if he trys just be like look..im a virgin and im not ready yet.
i mean dont give him tha cold shoulder but u dont have to have sex with him either.
this
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Just talk to him about it Im sure he'll understand
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No sex until you're in a steady relationship. You'll just get hurt otherwise.
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