My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me. Everything feels so pointless. He is literally my best friend in the world. He said he has to not be in a relationship right now an he doesn't want to cut of all contact with me...he wants to be friends. I see nothing good in the future. I live too far away from anything to get a job, every minute of the day already felt like an hour, now without him to look forward to...I can't live all these pointless fucking minutes. They're too long.
12:59 pm on Jan. 7, 2009
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I just broke-up with my girlfrined... Im taking it harder then she is.................
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It'll get better.
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Life's a bitch, and love hurts. That's just the way it is.
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aww sucks u'll be fine
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awww it'll be okaayy
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Aww hun. It must be so hard to feel like you have lost everything in the world but things will get easier for you. Yes now maybe it seems so tough and things seem pointless but give it a while the pain that your feeling will fade in time. Maybe you guys can talk about this or maybe it really is best you call it quits. Im sure theres plenty other guys out there for you. Even though it may seem a hard prospect to think about atm and another relationship is not something you want to contemplate. So just take it easy and take care. Best wish's. x
Post edited at 1:05 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 by Nonsternater
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Gerard Cullin
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woah woah woah. everyone has to go thru this at one point or another. My first and second breakup were unbearable and yet I'm still here. You'll get thru this. you'll just have to endure those minutes.
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LoveKay
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Nobody said break-ups are easy. They are difficult to deal with, and the hurt takes a long time to heal. But people do break up, and people do move on, and people do keep living their lives. I know it's hard, I've gone through similar situations you have, as many other people. But you are strong. I know it feels like losing a boyfriend and a best friend--too much at once--and like it could not get any worse. But I know you're strong. We all have that power within us to keep living and again be happy one day.
But him saying that you two can still be friends after two years of an intimate relationship... I don't know. I think that would only rip the wound more and more, and you will never be able to heal. It takes time, and this time needs to be away from all contact with the person.
I wish you the best of luck. Just remember--there was life before him and now there is life without him, and you must make the best of it.
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xPicturesOfYou3
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Urgh. That's terrible. You know breakups can be hard, but you know you may get back together, or some other lucky guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. Just be patient. It'll all work out.
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as time passes by, everyhting will seem better.
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