How can I convey to him that I love him and am worried without sounding overbearing? I really just want to go up to him and say "Why can't you just do your papers and your homework? Just bullshit through it, what does it fucking matter anyway, these aren't classes you even want to take." But I know that just won't work. I mean, I'm loosing sleep over the issue now. I just don't want him to have to get a career with the military or police or something. It's dangerous and he doesn't want to do it and I don't want him to do it, but if he fails out, those are his best options.

What can I do?

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In a city made of steel
The concrete rage is all we feel