We're not even talking about casual people you meet and make out with at a party or some shit. I mean, even close friends I haven't seen in the longest time. I have this friend named Erica. Freshman year, we were semi-close. I remember one night when all of my friends and I were fucking drunk, she let us sleep in her room for the night. I remember having a lot of fun with her, and we had an amazing drunk conversation. That's one of the most precious memories I have being with her.
A month ago, I saw her on the loop and we said hi and exchanged numbers. She told me to come to a party at her house, so I did, and we made out a few times throughout the night. It was a huge crowd but everyone exited by 2:00AM, and her and I stayed up and talked for an hour. It was far too late to go home, so I stayed in her room again, except that this time we ended up having sex. It was great. She's fucking hot, and I felt a lot of deep connection with her, etc.
The next day, she's all like: "soo dude.... if you're ever bored, or if you ever want to hang out, just call!" And I thought, well okay that sounds good. But a week passed and I didn't called. Two weeks passed, no call. A month passed and still no call.
She has got to think I'm the biggest jerk off ever. I'm not fucking sure what it is or why I didn't call, but I feel like the biggest dick. I'm sure she'd slap me across the head if she saw.
Distant friends = distant forever. :/