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OMG idk wha to do
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Replies: 1Last Post May 14 2:13am by SweeterThanChocolate
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I was tlking to my Boyfriends sister and she txt me saying that my bf raped her wen she was 12 or 13 years old.....i just dnt know wha to do or think..n shes always going on about how she hates her brother and this n that..but then wen im around them they seem fine..n she walks around the house in her underwear and even breast feeds her baby around him.she seemed so comfy around her big brother.....im just so confused idk wha to think..i really love my boyfriend..but i feel so disgusted right now by him =[..n NO i have no confronted him about..i jus need some advice n needed to vent =[ idk if i shud believe her or not..n no shes never told ne one but me

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It's a really difficult situation to be in.  At the moment, you seem to be taking her word for it, if as you say you're disgusted by him, and if that's the case, maybe you should leave now before it goes on any longer.

The only thing is, well, how do you know?  If he had truly raped her, do you think she would be so comfortable around him, and why isn't there any signs or indications that something so serious happened?  Is it possible she just said it, why she would lie I don't know, but is it possible?  I don't know what she'd gain from lying but then again, does it seem like something he could be capable of doing?

I know it would be really sick for someone to lie about something like that, but then again, some people think it's funny, like a way to test how loyal you are or something, I don't know.  Some people's minds work in a strange way.

From what you have said, it doesn't sound right, and I think you should have a little caution about believing her.  But how and if you will ever get the truth, I just don't know.  If you mention something to him, it could start a whole series of problems, and usually, it will come back to you as if it's your fault for mentioning it.

It's a hard one to deal with.  Personally, I would maybe not take it as 100% true for now, and use your sense as things go on.  It's probably the only thing you can do without breaking up the whole family with the allegation, true or not.

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