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Replies: 1Last Post April 24 10:51am by Bud2400
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whats good peeps.
alright..i was talkin to this girl for like 3 weeks and i hooked up with her any everything and she seemed really into me. all of a sudden we were gunan chill and she says she couldnt cuz she got a bad grade. and then today she says she doesnt wanna bf cuz she doesnt wanna get distracted and what not. she didnt really say she doesnt wanna talk anymore.
idk what to do like if i should keep talkin to her and wait till after school cuz i really dont wanna keep waiting. i told her i didnt want her to mess up in school and all but idk what to do

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How much are you actually distracting her in school?  If you're in class with her, I'd recommend still talking with her, but instead of talking about a bunch of little things, focus on whatever you're supposed to be doing in class (and once that's done, talking about other stuff), or if she's working on something that you aren't, have her focus on that.  Being near her and being available to help her if she needs it will make a big difference to her.  I'd recommend doing that if you really want to get in a relationship with her.

The key here is balance.  You don't want to lose sight of whatever you're done, but at the same time, you don't want to get so absorbed in it that you forget about each other.  So control yourself some, but at the same time, still try to have a little fun.  And of course, if whatever you have pent up still isn't being satisfied, waiting and talking with her after school to let all that out is still an option.  Just make sure that she's getting enough time and concentration to finish what she needs to finish.


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