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He raped me.
Replies: 45Last Post July 8, 2008 10:46pm by RainBowBow
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Tell a responsible adult or tell the police.

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Basically, this is the second time I've been raped since entering college. I feel so worthless you guys. Like I can't even have a stable relationship, they just want to use my body for their pleasures.

I can't even think straight right now and I was hoping somebody cared enough to help me but no one cares because NO ONE EVER CARES

I cant take this anymore. I really think I want to die you guys. Like I feel like it'll be better for me if I'm not here to be abused and raped and used. I cant take this life anymore.


11:09 pm on July 7, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 11:07 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:05 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:04 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from jplate19 at 11:03 pm on July 7, 2008

liar
 

  Yeah, because I'd lie about that. I'm so scared, though. He lives across the way from me in college .... and watches me all the time.


 

 well you wouldnt come on lw and post about it


 
This is a SUPPORT site you jack ass.


well your just like.
he raped me.
and thats the end.
TELL SOMEONE YOU DUMB FUCK

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To all you people saying "liar" or "pics plz", just shut the fuck up. Seriously.

Now, I know getting raped is a very terrifying and traumatic experience, and it is difficult to talk about... but you have to tell someone. Anyone you can trust. That includes your parents, best friends, aunt, uncle... whoever. Just make sure they can keep a secret. Also, a call to the police would definitely help. Just stay calm, and be strong.

Please, PLEASE don't hesitate to PM me if you want to discuss this further.

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call the police, tell someone.

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Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:10 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:07 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:05 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:04 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from jplate19 at 11:03 pm on July 7, 2008

liar
   

   Yeah, because I'd lie about that. I'm so scared, though. He lives across the way from me in college .... and watches me all the time.


 

  well you wouldnt come on lw and post about it


 

   
 This is a SUPPORT site you jack ass.


well your just like.
he raped me.
and thats the end.
TELL SOMEONE YOU DUMB FUCK


I DID. I TOLD YOU, AND YOU FUCKED ME OVER.

Everyone, never mind.

delete this thread mods.

im going to go away now.

and find my favorite bridge.

where ive tried several fucking times

and NO ONE BELIEVES THAT ILL DO IT


Ill prove to this fucking jackass


that I will


and you'll see my face on the fucking news

jordan marie stepenchenko


dead.


11:11 pm on July 7, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 2:11 am on July 8, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:10 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:07 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:05 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:04 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from jplate19 at 11:03 pm on July 7, 2008

liar
   

    Yeah, because I'd lie about that. I'm so scared, though. He lives across the way from me in college .... and watches me all the time.


   

   well you wouldnt come on lw and post about it


 

     
  This is a SUPPORT site you jack ass.


 

 well your just like.  
 he raped me.  
 and thats the end.  
 TELL SOMEONE YOU DUMB FUCK


I DID. I TOLD YOU, AND YOU FUCKED ME OVER.

 

Everyone, never mind.

delete this thread mods.

im going to go away now.

and find my favorite bridge.

where ive tried several fucking times

and NO ONE BELIEVES THAT ILL DO IT

 
Ill prove to this fucking jackass

 
that I will

 
and you'll see my face on the fucking news

jordan marie stepenchenko

 
dead.



whoa, don't do anything you'll regret later  

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you can pm me if you just need someone to talk to.

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jesus christ. This is truly showing LiveWire's supportive site.

I want you to tell someone, anyone you trust.
Feel free to PM me, anytime.


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Quote: from Anonymous at 11:07 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:05 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:04 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from jplate19 at 11:03 pm on July 7, 2008

liar

  Yeah, because I'd lie about that. I'm so scared, though. He lives across the way from me in college .... and watches me all the time.


 

 well you wouldnt come on lw and post about it


 
This is a SUPPORT site you jack ass.



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STOP. DO NOT KILL YOURSELF.

YOU ARE IRREPLACEABLE.

STOP.

He raped you. Google rape crisis centers or call a cop and get a rape kit done. Put the clothes you wore in a plastic bag. You don't have to press charges, but you can never do a rape kit later, and if you have it done now, you will be in the position to make that choice later.

This was not your fault. This is his flaw, not your own. He is a sick guy who gets off on power. If it wasn't you, it would have been somebody else, and if it wasn't somebody else, it would have been somebody else. You have been very unlucky, but YOU ARE IRREPLACEABLE. DO NOT HARM YOURSELF. Get a rape kit so you have the option of pressing charges. And if you like, send anonymous emails to your friends or to his friends, warning them that he is a rapist. It's what I would do.

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then god himself is a loser.... and should GTFO...." - ijustdontknow


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well, I just wandered in and I've been rped twice and I don't know why it's hard for people to be believed on that stuff.

Either way, police should be called.

I went strait to the police when it happened to me and I got medically checked before i showered or washed.

I admit, my case fell through, but at least he got scared by cops...

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If you told him no, and he did it anyway, that is rape.  There is no "no means maybe" bullshit.  

That being said, understand that crying rape is a very serious thing to do.  It is not something you do because you wanted to and now think its a mistake, as that just cheapens it for every other woman who has been, and will be raped.  As I am sure you would understand being in your position.

And stop looking for reasons as to why it happened.  It wasn't because you were high, drunk or whatever, its because the guy is an asshole, needs to be reported to the police, prosecuted and sent away for a long time.  Or the alternative of wondering if/when he will do it again.  Take the control back.  It is a crime, it should be reported to the police.  Do not shower, that removes evidence of the crime.  Call the police.

Post edited at 11:23 pm on July 7, 2008 by Themouser


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My advice, don't post serious topics in DTRM.

My advice on the situation, tell someone that can help you. Preferably the police but anyone will be better than telling no one.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 11:11 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:10 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:07 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:05 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:04 pm on July 7, 2008

Quote: from jplate19 at 11:03 pm on July 7, 2008

liar
   

    Yeah, because I'd lie about that. I'm so scared, though. He lives across the way from me in college .... and watches me all the time.


   

   well you wouldnt come on lw and post about it


 

     
  This is a SUPPORT site you jack ass.


 

 well your just like.  
 he raped me.  
 and thats the end.  
 TELL SOMEONE YOU DUMB FUCK


I DID. I TOLD YOU, AND YOU FUCKED ME OVER.

 

Everyone, never mind.

delete this thread mods.

im going to go away now.

and find my favorite bridge.

where ive tried several fucking times

and NO ONE BELIEVES THAT ILL DO IT

 
Ill prove to this fucking jackass

 
that I will

 
and you'll see my face on the fucking news

jordan marie stepenchenko

 
dead.


Woah okay. Most of these posts have been incredibly unsupportive, but there are supportive people out there, including myself.


Please don't take what these people are saying to heart. Some forget this is a support site.

Please PM me so we can talk about it and I will do my very best to help you in any way I can.

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