Hey, Sorry about the late response. The way you phrased the question, maybe some of the support leaders haven't had this issue. If you are looking for other people who have had this experience, maybe you should try the forums that everyone can reply to. That way, even though the quality may not be as good, it's better than the 0 replies you received here so far! I guess I will try to give you my $.02 even though I haven't much experience here. If you really like this girl, try to get her to understand that you have this. Explain it to her. If you tell her how it effects you, maybe she can be a support resource in your life!
So, best of luck to everything. If you want to drop me a message feel free!
~Shaun