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JeremyM
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You made the mistake. Now, live with the consequences.
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6:21 am on July 24, 2008 | Joined Oct. 2004 | 429 Days Active
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morrisonsMYmuse
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jeez. people on here are harsh.
you do need to tell him though, he has the right to know. you're going to have to face the consequences of your actions, and he may break up with you... but if you don't tell him, then the guilt will tear you up inside.
it isn't fair to him... i know you don't want to lose him, but you made a mistake and you have to face that.
i'm sorry. i know it sucks... but it's the right thing to do.
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lilolme
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definetly tell him
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6:12 pm on July 24, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 29 Days Active
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636lover
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the good side of me wants to say you have to tell him but I cheated on my bf too a few years back and there are a few things you have to consider. People think cheating is only done by people who don't care about their relationships and that there's a big fat line drawn through the middle of things but it's not that easy. At that time i was off at college (so 1st time on my own) My bf was my first everything (bf, sexual partner) and we really liked each other and had plans to take it to the next level after having been together a long while. i cheated on him once during the 5 months he had moved back to his hometown to save up money. I truly loved him at that time but i cheated on him when i visited a friend from highschool one weekend. I woke up the next day shattered thinking "what have i done?" I regretted it for a long while and tried to talk to him the next day on the phone asking him if I could take a break which we had discussed before(that was a disaster). He kept asking why i needed a break if i was so sure i loved him. After i thought about it i realized i cheated b/c i had never experienced anything w/ anyone else (kissing, sex, diff. personalities). That "free" period in your life is important for you to b able to know who u r, and what u want in someone else. he was so sure b/c he had had his fun in HS but i was quiet and introverted in HS and now that i was out and on my own it was time to explore. In the end i'm actually kind of glad it happened b/c i learned a lot, i never told him and we eventually broke up after he moved back but ask yourself if this event might be telling u something. I was completely sober when i cheated but i've never liked the idea of using alcohol as an excuse for it. I think it means those feelings were lurking and alcohol just made them come out of hiding.
feel free to message
Post edited at 4:05 pm on July 25, 2008 by 636lover
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ultima171
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cheating is a bad bad thing. me and my gf have been 2gether for 3 years and i really think that we are gonna get married but i told her if she ever cheated on me it would be over o matter what. trust is broken on that point
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daveythewavey19
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it's bitches like you that make men hate women. So when you don't get paid as much as a man someday, remember what you did to your bf and know you don't deserve equality.
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Quote: from daveythewavey19 at 3:57 pm on July 27, 2008
 it's bitches like you that make men hate women. So when you don't get paid as much as a man someday, remember what you did to your bf and know you don't deserve equality. 
Lmao bitch u funny....I don't derserve equality because I cheated on my Boyfriend....lets just be glad u got no say so on things like that...who are u to judge anything I do...yeah I slept with another guy but it was because I had real feelings for this guy...and fr the ya haters out there I did tell my bf and I am the one who broke it off not him....I realized that if I did something like this then it had to mean something...and it did I was in love with my bestfriend and my ex understood every word I said and respected me more for being straight up with him...So bitch don't judge me cuz some man probably screwed u over....thank u
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draakprinses
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Quote: from PINKISLOVE at 10:55 pm on July 23, 2008
there are two types of cheating. one is a physcial connection while the other is the cheating from the heart.
As Long as you love your boyfriend very much... you shouldn't tell him... if you plan on doing it again than you should kinda bring it up. anyways it sounds like you love your boyfriend don't cry over it... it was a mistake, you're humans and humans make mistakes. just learn from it.
No, no, no. The WORST thing she could do is not tell him. Because it will come out, these things ALWAYS do. And if he hears it from someone other than her, then there really will be absolutely no chance that he would forgive her. The best thing for you to do is to be completely honest. Admit it was stupid to drink around him. Don't make excuses, "Oh, we were drunk, we were just playing a game", that will only infuriate him. Tell him you fucked up and would do anything to rectify it. Just own up to it.
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