especially with alcohol involved

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if you're willing to have sex it's not hard to find in college

especially with alcohol involved

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*blinks* So, you live in a stereotypical world, I'm assuming, b/c when you get into college, it doesn't suddenly become this big ass alcoholic orgy. Hate to burst anyone's bubble.

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I know one person who won't
My bf.  
But as far as everyone else goes, probably most people in fraternities/sororities, party people, and people who wanna have a bit of fun and freedom do it, which is like everyone.

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if you're willing to have sex it's not hard to find in college

especially with alcohol involved

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*blinks* So, you live in a stereotypical world, I'm assuming, b/c when you get into college, it doesn't suddenly become this big ass alcoholic orgy. Hate to burst anyone's bubble.

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So.  This is coming from a junior in college who doesn't drink and has a steady boyfriend.
And I have to agree with the person you quoted.  If you go to college and are looking for sex, you will probably be able to find a willing person without too much looking.
And the more people drink, the more promiscuous they tend to get.
And yes, there is more alcohol in college than I have ever seen before in my life.  As a general rule, that's all parties are for.  I usually don't go to parties because they tend to just be an excuse to get wasted.

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So.  This is coming from a junior in college who doesn't drink and has a steady boyfriend.
And I have to agree with the person you quoted.  If you go to college and are looking for sex, you will probably be able to find a willing person without too much looking.
And the more people drink, the more promiscuous they tend to get.
And yes, there is more alcohol in college than I have ever seen before in my life.  As a general rule, that's all parties are for.  I usually don't go to parties because they tend to just be an excuse to get waste

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We don't have parties in our dorms. They're not allowed. Nor is loud music, over night members of the opposite sex, anyone under the age of 18, and leaving your doors open is due for a 50$ fine. It's not that hard to follow the rules. And we've NEVER had anyone break them. And I'm not talking about people having parties, and not get caught. Those that drink? They Do it off campus. Our campus is alcohol free. And it has been, for some time.

I don't have a steady boyfriend, by the way. I'm single. Have been, for the past three to four years of my life. I don't drink. My friends don't drink. They don't go around having anonymous sex. Nor does anyone I know.

It's a stereotypical world you're describing. The reality of it is: College is about college. If you go to a party school, yeah, you're going to have the parties, but not every university has that low standard.

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So. This is coming from a junior in college who doesn't drink and has a steady boyfriend.
And I have to agree with the person you quoted. If you go to college and are looking for sex, you will probably be able to find a willing person without too much looking.
And the more people drink, the more promiscuous they tend to get.
And yes, there is more alcohol in college than I have ever seen before in my life. As a general rule, that's all parties are for. I usually don't go to parties because they tend to just be an excuse to get waste

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We don't have parties in our dorms. They're not allowed. Nor is loud music, over night members of the opposite sex, anyone under the age of 18, and leaving your doors open is due for a 50$ fine. It's not that hard to follow the rules. And we've NEVER had anyone break them. And I'm not talking about people having parties, and not get caught. Those that drink? They Do it off campus. Our campus is alcohol free. And it has been, for some time.

I don't have a steady boyfriend, by the way. I'm single. Have been, for the past three to four years of my life. I don't drink. My friends don't drink. They don't go around having anonymous sex. Nor does anyone I know.

It's a stereotypical world you're describing. The reality of it is: College is about college. If you go to a party school, yeah, you're going to have the parties, but not every university has that low standard.

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I think if anything, your school is the one outside the norm.

There aren't parties in the dorms... they're all in the apartments, off campus.  My dorm isn't loud either because I'm in the honors dorm, but I've heard some stories about some of the other ones, lol.
We don't have stupid rules that would stop our families and friends from coming to visit.
As I stated, I don't drink either, and neither do most of my friends.  None of us go around having anonymous sex either.  All I said was IF someone WANTED to, they could.  There is definitely that opportunity in college, if someone were to search it out.

Maybe I am describing a stereotypical college, but maybe that's because that is really what a lot of colleges are like!

I agree that college is about college; I try to get a 4.0 just as hard as I'm sure you do.
All I'm saying is that not everyone has that mentality.  That's just the way it is.  If you don't want to drink and party, yes, it isn't hard not to, but if you do, then it's not hard to do that either.
That's the brilliance of college.  There is so much freedom, and you can make so many different choices.  You can learn from your mistakes, and also from your successes.  You end up learning a lot more than what's taught in your classes.

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I think if anything, your school is the one outside the norm.

There aren't parties in the dorms... they're all in the apartments, off campus.  My dorm isn't loud either because I'm in the honors dorm, but I've heard some stories about some of the other ones, lol.
We don't have stupid rules that would stop our families and friends from coming to visit.
As I stated, I don't drink either, and neither do most of my friends.  None of us go around having anonymous sex either.  All I said was IF someone WANTED to, they could.  There is definitely that opportunity in college, if someone were to search it out.

Maybe I am describing a stereotypical college, but maybe that's because that is really what a lot of colleges are like!

I agree that college is about college; I try to get a 4.0 just as hard as I'm sure you do.
All I'm saying is that not everyone has that mentality.  That's just the way it is.  If you don't want to drink and party, yes, it isn't hard not to, but if you do, then it's not hard to do that either.
That's the brilliance of college.  There is so much freedom, and you can make so many different choices.  You end up learning a lot more than what's taught in your classes.

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They don't have parties at the apartments, neither. There's a strict curfew, and a strict noise ordinace, that the deep city follows.

My family and friends can come visit, but no one of the opposite sex, or no one under the age of 18 can stay over. Rules you are expected to follow. You sign the contract, you follow the rules. It's the same with the off campus apartments. Many of them have the same rules.

Yeah, if you search ANYTHING out, there's ALWAYS an opportunity, but WHO would search out sex, or drinking, or drugs? Adolescent brats, who think they're better than everyone/think they're adults.

If you were describing a stereotypical college, honey, you wouldn't be describing reality, for a STEREOTYPE is NOT OF THE NORMAL. Henceforth, your statement:

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Maybe I am describing a stereotypical college, but maybe that's because that is really what a lot of colleges are like!

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Would be false.

Furthermore, I don't strive for a 4.0. I strive for an A. It doesn't have to be Straight A's, but an A, nonetheless. College is not about Perfection, neither.

You have freedoms, but with that freedom comes responsibility. "No" is a wise word. As is 'avoidance of peer pressure'. That comes not only with your college surroundings, but with your familar surroundings, and friendly surroundings, too. The only ones who succomb to the 'party' and 'search out sex' atmosphere are those with weak souls, and those who can't say 'no'. It's not that hard, but, sadly, those pathetics exist in this world.

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They don't have parties at the apartments, neither. There's a strict curfew, and a strict noise ordinace, that the deep city follows.

My family and friends can come visit, but no one of the opposite sex, or no one under the age of 18 can stay over. Rules you are expected to follow. You sign the contract, you follow the rules. It's the same with the off campus apartments. Many of them have the same rules.

Yeah, if you search ANYTHING out, there's ALWAYS an opportunity, but WHO would search out sex, or drinking, or drugs? Adolescent brats, who think they're better than everyone/think they're adults.

If you were describing a stereotypical college, honey, you wouldn't be describing reality, for a STEREOTYPE is NOT OF THE NORMAL. Henceforth, your statement:

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Maybe I am describing a stereotypical college, but maybe that's because that is really what a lot of colleges are like!

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Would be false.

Furthermore, I don't strive for a 4.0. I strive for an A. It doesn't have to be Straight A's, but an A, nonetheless. College is not about Perfection, neither.

You have freedoms, but with that freedom comes responsibility. "No" is a wise word. As is 'avoidance of peer pressure'. That comes not only with your college surroundings, but with your familar surroundings, and friendly surroundings, too. The only ones who succomb to the 'party' and 'search out sex' atmosphere are those with weak souls, and those who can't say 'no'. It's not that hard, but, sadly, those pathetics exist in this world.

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The whole CITY has a curfew??  I find that hard to believe... I've heard of cities having curfews for minors, but never for adults.

I understand that you have to follow the rules and everything; I'm just getting off topic here by saying that personally I would never want to live anywhere where my brother and sister can't even stay.  I look forward all year for sibs weekend!  And I have friends under 18 who come to see me sometimes too.  My school is too far away from home for it to be worth it to only come up for a day.  What about students whose birthday isn't until after school starts?  I mean, I'm assuming they make an exception, but, there are just too many problems with the rule in my opinion.

Anyway.

And personally, a 4.0 is my goal.  It was in high school as well.  I know that numbers can't tell intelligence and all that, but nevertheless it does sound impressive :)

As for your last paragraph, I mostly agree with you.  The only thing I have to say is that some people really do want to drink and have sex.  I don't personally understand their mentality on it, but they do exist, and they don't do it because they "can't say no" or "have weak souls."  Yes, it isn't too hard to say no, but there are people out there who honestly don't want to!

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The whole CITY has a curfew??  I find that hard to believe... I've heard of cities having curfews for minors, but never for adults.

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You've never heard of cities having curfews? I'm not talking about for minors. I'm talking about for students and citizens, aged 18 to 20. That's about your average age for dorm students.

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I understand that you have to follow the rules and everything; I'm just getting off topic here by saying that personally I would never want to live anywhere where my brother and sister can't even stay.  I look forward all year for sibs weekend!  And I have friends under 18 who come to see me sometimes too.  My school is too far away from home for it to be worth it to only come up for a day.  What about students whose birthday isn't until after school starts?  I mean, I'm assuming they make an exception, but, there are just too many problems with the rule in my opinion.

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Exceptions are exceptions. But that's just it. They're not the minority.

I don't have siblings, and I certainly don't want my roommate's male sibling sleeping over. It would make me uncomfortable, for I signed up for a FEMALE roommate. And my roommate understands that. She wouldn't like it if I, say, had my guy cousin stay over. Or my female cousin, for that matter. Our parentals, even. It's just not something you would expect, nor see yourself comfortable it. They're strangers. People you don't know. And yours are strangers to them, too.

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And personally, a 4.0 is my goal.  It was in high school as well.  I know that numbers can't tell intelligence and all that, but nevertheless it does sound impressive :)

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As for your last paragraph, I mostly agree with you.  The only thing I have to say is that some people really do want to drink and have sex.  I don't personally understand their mentality on it, but they do exist, and they don't do it because they "can't say no" or "have weak souls."  Yes, it isn't too hard to say no, but there are people out there who honestly don't want to!

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What people want to drink and have sex, haphazardly/randomly like that? I don't care if they want to say no, or not, I highly disagree with it, because it's pretty childish to go about things like that. It's how people end up failing at life.

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You've never heard of cities having curfews? I'm not talking about for minors. I'm talking about for students and citizens, aged 18 to 20. That's about your average age for dorm students.

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No, I've never heard of a city having a curfew for adults.  It doesn't even seem legal to me...

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I don't have siblings, and I certainly don't want my roommate's male sibling sleeping over. It would make me uncomfortable, for I signed up for a FEMALE roommate. And my roommate understands that. She wouldn't like it if I, say, had my guy cousin stay over. Or my female cousin, for that matter. Our parentals, even. It's just not something you would expect, nor see yourself comfortable it. They're strangers. People you don't know. And yours are strangers to them, too.

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Why not?  My roommate's twin brother spent the weekend with us, and both my little brother and sister stayed too.  Neither of us knew each other's siblings beforehand, but it was a lot of fun!  Also, I've had a friend (a girl) stay the night before, who was only 16 at the time.  My roommates never had a problem with it; they had friends still in high school come stay with them too.  It was cool getting to meet each other's friends and hang out with them, while they got to experience a taste of college life :)

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What people want to drink and have sex, haphazardly/randomly like that? I don't care if they want to say no, or not, I highly disagree with it, because it's pretty childish to go about things like that. It's how people end up failing at life.

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I agree that it's really irresponsible to have sex haphazardly, but that doesn't mean everyone else thinks the same way I do!  A lot of people, even just on this site, have a "sex is sex" mentality.
As for drinking, while I personally don't drink, I honestly couldn't care less who else does.  It doesn't really bother me.  I just choose not to.

Now that we've gotten almost completely off topic lol...

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No, I've never heard of a city having a curfew for adults.  It doesn't even seem legal to me...

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*shrugs* Our state is quite backwards. ;)

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Why not?  My roommate's twin brother spent the weekend with us, and both my little brother and sister stayed too.  Neither of us knew each other's siblings beforehand, but it was a lot of fun!  Also, I've had a friend (a girl) stay the night before, who was only 16 at the time.  My roommates never had a problem with it; they had friends still in high school come stay with them too.  It was cool getting to meet each other's friends and hang out with them, while they got to experience a taste of college life :)

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I know I'm not comfortable having my roommate's brother in the room as me. I don't know him. He's not only a stranger, but a member of the opposite sex. When I have a guy over, the roommate has met him, at least three times, before, and we've had dinner, gone out to a movie, something, together. With family, the opportunity to do that isn't really there.

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I agree that it's really irresponsible to have sex haphazardly, but that doesn't mean everyone else thinks the same way I do!  A lot of people, even just on this site, have a "sex is sex" mentality.
As for drinking, while I personally don't drink, I honestly couldn't care less who else does.  It doesn't really bother me.  I just choose not to

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Yeah, see, I tell my friends: You want to drink, and have random sex, do so, but you'll lose me as a friend if it's done in my presence. Thankfully, I don't know people who act on that sort of immaturity.

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Quote: from mikeyp123 at 10:23 pm on July 16, 2008

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I've always wanted to ask this. And no its not me in anonymous.

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same here. I mean, not everyone can have sex... because... I'm sure almost everyone wants to, how will they all find a consenting partner? Some of them are bound to be hideous and desperate.

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You'd be surprised.

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