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This really bothers me.
Replies: 18Last Post July 25 10:15am by shorty 22
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I consider myself very observant, and I can usually tell what people think about me. With the exception of my closest 4 friends, people seem to think that I am a shallow idiot.

It hurts, because it's not the case. I'm not very open with people who I am not close to, so a lot of my innermost thoughts I keep to myself.

My closest friends told me they were surprised when they got to know me, and found out how different I was than what they expected.

It still hurts though, to be completely written off before people get to know you.


6:41 am on July 25, 2008
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That's life, what you do is stop caring what the fuck other people think.

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I happen to be in the exact situation.
Only i'm not really stressed over it.
I am myself with those i like, and I keep to myself with those i despise.
I honestly don't care.

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Quote: from Relativity at 6:43 am on July 25, 2008

I happen to be in the exact situation.
Only i'm not really stressed over it.  
I am myself with those i like, and I keep to myself with those i despise.  
I honestly don't care.

Yeah, I try to be like that. But sometimes, I just want to say "Do you seriously think you're a better person than I am?"


6:44 am on July 25, 2008
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Quote: from ranman at 6:42 am on July 25, 2008

That's life, what you do is stop caring what the fuck other people think.

Totally agree


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Welcome to life.

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i have the same thing ........no one knows me

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Quote: from ranman at 4:42 pm on July 25, 2008

That's life, what you do is stop caring what the fuck other people think.

i agree

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Why do they matter though? Why do you even want to waste your breath on the people who just judge you at the drop of a hat? Do they really affect you in anyway?

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Quote: from Anonymous at 9:44 am on July 25, 2008

Yeah, I try to be like that. But sometimes, I just want to say "Do you seriously think you're a better person than I am?"
Ah. I see. It's the ignorance what pisses you off.
It irritates me certain times.
Depends on the way my day's been going.

But i am quite sure that i've always been a bit shallow.

Meh.

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rex reed and relativity are awesome because there names start with R.

If you really care that much you can start being more outgoing, start conversations with people and if they don't seem interested then walk away if they talk back then just be amicable and be yourself

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Quote: from ranman at 9:46 am on July 25, 2008

Why do they matter though? Why do you even want to waste your breath on the people who just judge you at the drop of a hat? Do they really affect you in anyway?
Sometimes it hurts to not be able to reveal your "true" self in public. Mostly because one is self-conscious.
Sometimes one may think, "If only you knew...". Whilst others are labeling you.

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ya u no that really bothers me too... But I don't do that to other people... I really admire u posting this people really needed to understand this...

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well instead of building up a victimization complex either accept yourself or change yourself... too much change is bad, too much accepting is arrogance... but keep the status quo when you're unhappy is a waste of a life.

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Quote: from ranman at 6:59 am on July 25, 2008

well instead of building up a victimization complex either accept yourself or change yourself... too much change is bad, too much accepting is arrogance... but keep the status quo when you're unhappy is a waste of a life.

I don't have one. I think you may be reading too much into this.

My only point was, I don't like how people assume they are better than me, or that I am ignorant because I don't put my feelings all out there.

I hide my feelings because I want to, not because I have a problem.

And I'm not unhappy, I just get really annoyed when people assume things that they have no idea about. I'm not going to go cry in a corner. It's just annoying, and saddening how people underestimate me as a person.

Post edited at 7:04 am on July 25, 2008 by Anonymous


7:03 am on July 25, 2008
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