If I am, he will get kicked out of his house, but he can live with me. He doesn't want his parents to disown him or me, I'm part of his family just like he's a part of mine. It would really hurt me to get an abortion and i don't think i can live with that if i ever have to get one.

                    we're going to wait until next month to get a test done, what should i do to get my boyfriend to understand that i cant go threw with that?

Please no smart-ass remarks or anything I'm just asking for some help because i cant go threw with that. It'll break my heart..and i believe it would his too even if he wants it done.

About the baby, it is your baby. It is ultimately your decision. I am pro-life, but I also respect another woman's decision, I mean I am not you.

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just tell him. he might react badly, but he might not. if he really loves you, he'll understand. if he walks away, it's because he's scared. just like you. he's probably not ready to be a dad, just like you probably don't feel ready to be a mom. but things change. best of luck.

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  is there anything you would do, or would you just wait and find out?

Since we're going to wait until next month i told him that maybe he should think over that and see if that what he really really wants, if he doesn't change his mind i don't know what my next step would be if i am.

I don't think his parents would disown you. How old are you guys? Either way, they would be having a grand child, thats incredible. They migth say that at first, but they'd probably be back.

Good luck! =D

If you can't go through with it don't.
But think about how (if you can) bring up support and give it the best life you can.

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He's 18, I'm 17...I know what you're thinking teen pregnancy, wow what a dumb ass, but for real this wasn't planned. We wasn't going to try until I'm at least 20..maybe.

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Actually I'm not thinking that at all. It happens! It's nothing to feel ashamed about or embarreasted. At least you're close to graduation, and you're mature enough to handle this. Even if his parents kick him out, he can get a good enough job. Everything will be okay!

He can support us..he's very good to me.

If he does leave you have to be strong for your baby,  eat well and stay fit. Look to find a birthing partner they will really help and try find other girl in the same situation.

Good luck:)