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can't get my girlfriend off
Replies: 27Last Post April 22 12:00am by clloyd
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i feel really bad because no matter what i do i can't get my girlfriend to have and orgasm. shes says she can do it fine herself and has had one with every other guy she has been with so it really is just me. fingering, oral, and sex none are getting it done, i can tell she is starting to get bored with sex and doesn't really enjoy it at all. she just looks like she zones out every time we have sex, i even caught her trying to read a book one time, its getting bad.

in addition to that her friends, which she is obviously telling about our horrible sex life have started coming up to me trying to give me advice on how to please her better, which is completely embarrassing. what can i do to please my girlfriend?


12:56 pm on April 13, 2008
yesnoyes


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she started reading a book?!
just ask her what she likes and stuff..get her to tell you when it feels good

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howaboutsno


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listen to her friends and not get embarassed.
or confront her about it n ask her how to please her.

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theglassflute


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just finger her....

My gf hadn't gotten off in 3 yrs...but I changed that....;)

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nollie00V


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that sucks

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afonusi


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pathetic: do u have older brothers to show you the tools of the trade

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kitten008


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Why doesn't she guide you and tell you what she likes? If she can get herself off she should be trying to help you out... I think it's a bit inconsiderate of her to just sit there being bored and not doing anything about it.

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ohhithere


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Lol, reading a book?  

Tell her to be more vocal with what she wants, then, and if she can't do that then tell her to shut the fuck up.

Post edited at 12:59 pm on April 13, 2008 by ohhithere


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flufnut


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make her really really kinky, but make her wait, be on like sex mode all week, and so be kissing her, tlking dirty getting her all fired up , and then not giving her the final sex and then after a week go 4 it, and you AND her will deffo be redy, i do it to my boyfreind and he drives him wild

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xXkieraXx


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vibrator?

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If she was reading a book, then maybe you should just move on from here. If she is reading or trying to find something else to do, then she is not trying to put the effort.

The best thing to do in this type of situation IMO is to talk to her about it. Tell her you are willing to work with her. Ask her to tell you what she likes, where to kiss, where to lick. Just because you are asking for directions doesnt mean you are a bad lover. Every girl is different and they are all going to like different things.

Just sit her down and talk to her about it. It will get you really far.

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InnocentTears


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Tell her that it upsets you that she's told her friends.
Get her to relax and really try,not think about anything else and just let go. The same thing happened when i first got together with my bf. Then once i just completely like concentrated on it and i could:)
good luck!

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yesterdays love


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Rofl she read a book

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tell her to guide on with what she wnts

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headspin


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The best way is to simply talk about it with her. If she gets off fine by herself, perhaps ask her to do a little show and tell for you ;) If shes bored, spice things up. Remember don't beat yourself up too much, its also her responsibility to reach orgasm.

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