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I love Nathan

i love him

Replies: 5 — Last Post April 13 11:23am by greeneyedone

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( babe3636790 )

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Hey there
My Name is Laura and I am reallly in need of help i have a friend called Nathan whos 19 he fancys me i know this because he told me at college anyways i didnt think much of it when he told me that he fancys me but he came over 2 me and touched my shoulder i over reacted and told him not 2 do it cos he has a gf anways this thursday he touched my back and my hair and then wanted 2 hold hands with me i said no to him politely i am desperate to try and find out what he wants from me as its driving me mad he has a gf but keeps on flirting with me plus its not like hes exactly single at the moment so his body language towards me is very confusing for me should i talk 2 him? but there is another problem i have a bf and i love him but i also think im in love with nathan please help im 19 and hes also 19 DONT know what to do HELP PLEASE I love nathan and my bf xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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You're confused about what/who you want. It happens to the best of us.

All you can really do in this situation is make a decision.

Either you:
-stop flirting with Nathan
-break up with your boyfriend and continue flirting with him
-keep doing what you are doing, and eventually his girlfriend/your boyfriend find out and then everyone gets mad

Or something else.

Often, in relationships, after dating one person for a while, you begin to lose that excitement. It doesn't feel as intense as when it first started. Someone else comes along, and it comes back... It's that whole "newness" thing.

The best suggestion I could offer is that you don't flirt with someone while taken, because the end results usually seem to be bad.

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Long live love, and all her glory.

( babe3636790 )

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thanks for the advice i havent flirted with him yet cos he asks me to sit with me and stuff i dont know wot im going 2 do yetxxxx

1:00 pm on April 12, 2008 | Joined Nov. 2007 | 101 Days Active
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Quote: from babe3636790 at 1:00 pm on April 12, 2008

i havent flirted with him yet

But it doesn't seem like you've openly said for him to STOP flirting with you, which is as good as flirting back.

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( babe3636790 )

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Yes i can uderstand that but he should be mature enough to be able to stop flirting with me i dont know wot else to do im going 2 end up breaking up with my bf if he doesnt stop it its driving me mad im friends with his gf and he has been told once allready not to touch me again cos hes not single xxx

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greeneyedone

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It seems like he is flirting with you because he likes you. But you have to think about if you break up with your boyfriend to get with Nathan, will Nathan flirt with other girls when you are with him like he does to his current girlfriend.

If it was me, I would tell him to stop flirting with you while he has a girlfriend, and I would stick to the boyfriend I have. As far as you know, your boyfriend that you are with right now could be the guy for you. Nathan could be too, but do you really want him to be flirting with others while you are with him.

You could always talk to him about what is going on. He could just be being friendly and doesnt realize that he is flirting with you. Talking to him is a good way to get to the bottom of everything and then make an educated decision about what you want to do about the situation.

I hope everything works out.

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Thanks everyone for the points. I love you all.

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