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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 10:22 pm on Nov. 2, 2009 Return to Inbox
Subject: I'm not pretty and I can't fix it
I know I'm not pretty, in fact im quite ugly. It just frusterates me so much because I can't change it. and I hate how all the other girls at my school are drop dead gorgeous and I'm not. it HURTS. and everyone at school tells me I'm not pretty. :( .
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Anonymous Trust me when I tell you are not the only girl (or person) who feels this way. We all hate at least one thing about themselves. And when I say that those girls who you think are "drop dead gorgeous" have their hang up about themselves also, they do. Hard to believe, but everyone has things they hate about themselves.

You should be proud of who you are and what God has given you. Accept yourself for what you look like. In your eyes, but may be ugly but in someone else's, you are as gorgeous as you think those other girls are. Believe in yourself.

As Scarlet Tears said, you are who you are. Your own person. You should embrace what you have and do what you need to do to make you feel comfortable with who you are. Maybe that will be looking into a mirror and each day telling yourself you are beautiful or putting a bit of make-up. People will love you for who you are.

Your friends and loved ones have accepted you for who you are, so what is stopping you from doing that? You need to have more confidence in yourself and believe that you are beautiful inside and out because you are. And to the people who say you aren't, best thing you are do is not to listen to them. Nobody needs those hurtful comments in their lives.

Best wishes! And remember to believe in yourself :)

Posted at 1:29 pm on Nov. 3, 2009

Hi There!
I'm sorry you feel this way sweetie but listen, looks aren't everything and your right, you can't change who you are so what you are going to have to do is accept it. You are you, different to everyone else, special and unique. It doesn't matter if your not beautiful on the outside, people have different opinions on outer beauty any way, one person can think you are beautiful and another could think you aren't. All that matters is your beauty within. So don't listen to those other people who say you aren't beautiful because on the inside your a beautiful person and if they can't see that well then that is their lose and if they are being mean to you about it they obviously lack inner beauty. So when you look at those pretty girls say to yourself "At least I have inner beauty, that's all that counts." because people don't love you for your looks (People worth knowing any way) people love you for whats inside.
I hope this helped darling, if you need anything else feel free to make a livewire account and contact me, take care! xx
~Dani

Posted at 10:59 pm on Nov. 2, 2009
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